when i did the wrong bolt i was puzzeled, we pushed my crx with a accord up to 80km and then dumped the clutch and just screeeeeeeeeeeeech, hm what the ----

then I got it

 

Well, my next step will be to take out the integra starter and hook it up to the harness but have it out of the trans. I'll just have to add a ground wire. I realized that my brother and I turned the engine over by hand after it was put in the car, so I don't think it is the bolt problem. So If the starter works when it is not in the transmission I can only assume either the ground is bad or the starter is just not strong enough to turn the engine over. After work I'm gonna add a ground wire directly from the battery to the starter and see what happens before I take it out. Thanks for all the help!

 

Well, it turned out that it was indeed a bad ground. I attached a wire from the chassis right to the starter bolt, started right up. Remember kids, check yo grounds! Stay in drugs! Don't do school!