Thank you so much whiteb16crx. you hit the spot, i took out the o2 and the check engine light came on and give me 2 codes the knock sensor and the o2. but we test drived it anyways and some how the car drives fine now..some bad idling but as long as the car drives and we can work from there.. thanks to all others that helped too. i'm so glad this problem is all over.

 

any time the o2 are funny it could stay at one postion and not throw a code. that why this forum is great.