My mother passed away on monday. Life is bitter sweet.
 

Yeah, i hate to say it and believe me it still hasnt sunk in all the way. im the oldest of 7 and we are 6 boys 1 girl. youngest are twins( joshua and NOel ) of 6 years old and my bro Benji who is 11. then Diana ( 14) Carlos (15) Rafael ( 24) and Self ( 28 )

My mother was 46 and the cause of death is still under investigation. She is at the coroners and we wont know what cause her to pass till saturday or monday morning.
She was fine on m onday morning doing her usual things like taking a walk around the neighborhood and making my dad something to eat for work. she awoke at 5:30 and did all her routine things. 7:12am monday morning my dad left to work and was the last time he saw her alive.

My brother benji heard her call for him around 7:3o ish. He said she told him she wanst feeling well and to call 911. he said she wasnt breathing well and that she collapsed. the paramedics came and she was out. They tried to bring her back numerous times in the ambulance and at the hospital with no luck. I was given the bad news when i arrived at the hospital around 9 ish.

My brother ralph and my GF were with me. When we got to where my mother was in the hospital my dad was wating by her side and told us. It was horrible. i felt like ----. i still do. I dont know what to make of all this and it sucks that my lil bros are left without my m om.

The good thing is that she did a good job at raising us to take care of ourselves. I will forever miss her and will be one with mjyself when i meet up with here in heaven.

Miss you mom...i know you can see and hear me.

I just needed to vent cause i didnt want to go insane.

Any of the socal members that have me my mom knows how nice of a person she was. She was very active in the community, church and school and touched many peoples lives. Did her best to make other peoples lifes better even if it meant that we saw less of her at home. Still , all she had were good intentions.

If any Socal hmt members that met my mother and would like to attend her services just let me know and ill post up the funeral info. More than likely it will be next week tuesday, weds. at the eraliest maybe sat or sunday. I will keep you guys posted if anyone cares.

thanks for listening.

Julio Bustamante :'( :( :8

My brother be

Re: My mother passed away on monday. Life is bitter sweet.
 

Shitty to hear that dude. Wasn't she suffering from bi-polar or along the lines of that ? I kind of remember the thread of her calling the cops on you lol.

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I know we live on opposite sides of the country, but I'm really sorry to hear Julio. We're all here for you buddy.

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Wow 46, that is very early. My prays are with you and your family, I very sorry to here that. Take care of your self Julio!

Re: My mother passed away on monday. Life is bitter sweet.
 

she had some issues with something mental but never was i 100% sure of what it was. What sucks more is that i spent like tha last 3 months fighting with her and not talking to her and now this. ----!

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Sorry to hear Julio. Keep your mexican head up.

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+1

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one of the only times real sympathy will be given on hmt

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+2... My grandmother is in the hospital right now and its not lookin' good. Sad week

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Oh man Julio, I'm sorry bro. She was really friendly to me when I was there this past October. Hell I think she even gave me hug if I remember. Man your pops has alot on his plate now with your little bros and sister to take care of now by just himself. Man this really got me bumming now. Expect a call cabron.