I need a divorce!
#1
I need a divorce!
It's like this. My ex ( some of you know her ) is making my life miserable. I cant have my son with me without her asking him who i was with and what we did. That and she holds over my head that if i keep bringing him around my current GF she will limit the time spent with him. I want to see him as much as i can but she enrolls him in classes and YMCA without asking me or thinking how it affects the time i see him. She also asks me to pay for half of the costs of the extracurricular activities. I pay her 500 a month in Child support and I pay for all my sons Benefits. On top of that, she makes more than me. Im not gonna get into how much but we both make enough to make 70-80k combined. I also need to mention that ever since he was born she has included him on her taxes and i have yet to claim him. He was born in 02 and we got married in in 05 and even after the marriage was i able to claim him or head of household. I have been fucked since day one! I'm tired of her ---- and i want to move on. I dont want her to have control over when i can see my son and i guess i need to have the courts help me with this. My plan is to file for custody, divorce before she does. This will be done within the end of this month and she wont know. I have all the e-mails of her bad mouthing me and text messages along with voicemails and various other pieces of evidence.
Im tired of this and i want it to stop.
Im tired of this and i want it to stop.
#4
Re: I need a divorce!
Originally Posted by d-man
I feel sorry for your son though for having to go through all this. I think I feel more sorry for him then I do you.
good luck little guy.
#5
Re: I need a divorce!
its ironic how when you have a relationship with a woman and end up having kids its the man thats really getting fucked, even though you don't discover this until later.
ps she can't limit any of your visitation rights if you are paying child support, otherwise you can sue her and get custody.
ps she can't limit any of your visitation rights if you are paying child support, otherwise you can sue her and get custody.
#6
Re: I need a divorce!
Divorce sucks *** on kids, I experienced it first hand. Be there for the kid and he'll get through it okay. The thing you have to remember is that even though you may hate her, she is still the mother of your child.
Good luck man....
Good luck man....
#7
Re: I need a divorce!
Originally Posted by SinisterCRX
Divorce sucks *** on kids, I experienced it first hand. Be there for the kid and he'll get through it okay. The thing you have to remember is that even though you may hate her, she is still the mother of your child.
Good luck man....
Good luck man....
#9
Re: I need a divorce!
Originally Posted by julio_bOOstamante
i wasnt gonna make myself miserable forcing myself to be with his mom when i just really wanted to stab her in the face.
On a side note I can finally get some fresh barbacoa from the local beaner supermarket as they only make it on weekends. Dude I think I was an esa in another life