Well going to strip my map wire to check my connection the ------- whole wire from the ecu ripped out. I looked into it and noticed there was a little square silver peice type connector. Are these removable? How can I rewire this?

 

Yes they are removable. Hopefully you have spare ecu's harnesses laying around to snag parts from. :P

There is a specific Honda tool to remove them but I have had good luck with a really small 'jewelry' screwdriver. A long pin might work, but bend kinda easy.

Take a close look at the connector and you will see where you need to poke the screwdriver in at to get them out.

 

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As I recall, my connector had a closure which snapped together at the wires, it is easier to see the pin as you force it out from the front with a icepick or small jewelers screwdriver. Note: that it may not want to stay in as well when you replace it, but you can use the same screwdriver to make sure it is pushed onto the connection from the back of the connector.

-Sam
BmC Racing