Worried about wife
 

Ok here is the story, I got married 7 months ago to a girl I dated for a year. I married her right before I started army med school. Over the course of the last 3 months she has told me about 4 different lesbian relationships she had before me. Yesterday we go out to eat and she invites a nurse with us that she works with. When we were eating I got the feeling that they "liked" each other. I confronted her about it later and she said if we weren't married she would have wanted sex with her friend. Now I am really ------- worried she is going to cheat on me, I am going to Peru in about 4 months for a infectious disease rotation and will be there for 6 weeks. What do you guys think? I have a feeling she wouldn't tell me if she did, which sucks. I dunno

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when in doubt, blow her brains out.

JK...

DUde just get an annullment its been less than a year, its obvious that you have trust issues, you got married way to soon, what else hasnt she told you? or what kind of ---- is she keeping from you??

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you dont lose your ride you lose your turn :-* now send addy and pics

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LOL

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Your looking at this the wrong way...

Your wife is bisexual-----right. She likes getting it on with you as well as other women.

What you need to do now is find a way to make her likes come together.

My girl is bi and if you work it right it can be a great thing.

Dont be an idiot, most guys would love to be in the position your in!

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:y :y :y :y :y :y

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exactly.. tell her she can ---- any girl she wants as long as u are there too. Instant 3 sum...

This girl is not marriage material, she obviously isnt ready for commitment and u cant trust her. I get what your saying so then after a year is almost up just get a annullment. And keep this time a memory for funny storys in like 10 years from now to tell about how u were married to a lesbien.

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How do you just get a annulment? I thought there were certain guidelines you must meet?

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preach on my brotha

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2 girlfriends are better then having none >>> :P

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Says the guy with none.

This is going to be a huge mess for you but since you are heading for divorce anyway, you might as well bang the beejesus out of some random sluts and your wife. If I were in your shoes, I would offer the wife the chance to see other women as long as you were involved. Setup some basic guidelines. Enjoy banging two chicks. I would make sure I'm not the one seen as dating the other girl. This means all I have to do is show up and ---- her. Let your wife get emotionally attached. Then hopefully your wife will cheat on you with the girl or another girl, you can get a divorce and not lose your shirt on the deal.

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I would get rid of her. You want the bi chick who wants a three-some. Not the one that wants a relationship with chicks.

This mentally is the same thing is her wanting to ---- other guys. Kick that to the curb and then try to hook up later with her and the chick.

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Best advice yet.

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I completey agree, this would be great if this was some chick you were banging with no intention of building a serious relationship but she is OBVIOUSLY not marriage material. trust me this is only the beginning, your girl is a freak and it always gets worse... keep it on the down low and look for a way out...save up some just in case money/assets so you have some options in case you decide on divorce

good luck man, i never thought id try to talk a guy out of a situation like this lol funny how we grow up

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Bail out why you can. Would be cool if she was a girlfriend, but not a wife.

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you=married to soon, wife=want to bang women, situation for you = no bueno

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give her a chance... If she cheats on you, put it in her ass and making movies. Then send it to all her friends.

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:y :y :y you are a smart man.

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this is the best advice so far ;D

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---- that put it in her butt anyways! honestly if you want it to work give her a chance (just make sure your ready for the heartbreak)

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Thx for the advice guys, I'm in a pretty shitty posistion. I think I'm going to wait it out and see what happens, I'm not worth much money wise so no worries there. If I get the feeling she is seriously trying to get with that chick I think it's over. I'm pissed I didn't learn this ---- untill after we got married, but what ever you live and you learn.

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bro, the marriege is over

once you have these needling thoughts in the back of your head, they will not go away for more then a little while ever again. every little thing she does will make you wonder... you dont need that ----, learn something from this and end the marriege before you invest any more time + money into a relationship that will never work whether its for a good reason or not

been there done that failed at life

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dude just get her to 3sum with her friend and then kum on ur wifes face and say were getting a divorce bitch LOL

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one, you dont need to be married until you're at least 35....if at all. all marraige is is a ------- sinktrap. you'll only get pulled down. firgure this: 1 out of 2 marraiges end up in divorce. now look at your neighbor who is happily married, that leaves you my friend. end it now, and just be done with her, its been said before, im just saying it again.

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---- Punt that -----.

Right in the clam.

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See my av? Go that with her and the friend.

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Yup, take advantage of the situation. I honestly wouldn't have a problem if my chick wanted to bring other girls home. We have actually talked about this, but she wasn't comfortable with me banging other girls and I'm not comfortable with her banging other guys so it probably wouldn't workout.....unless she just wanted to ---- random girls and not ---- around with other guys. :6
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You already know the answer to your question man.. the hardest part is facing the truth.. you know it, and i know it.. not only will she cheat on you with women, but also men..

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the answer to your problem is in your first sentence.

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Seriously, although I give him credit for not marrying her after 3 months like so many idiots do. I've been with my girl for almost 3 years and it'll be at least another 4-5 until I'm married, if that will even happen.

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Yea I'm on the 6th year with my girl and we are just now going to get married. ::)

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Wait until she gets the "wedding bug". :-\ She won't leave you alone about it and you will be forced to either marry her sooner or break up with her. What's her email? I'm going to email her some wedding links. :P
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id dump the bitch, yea wedding bug is a bitch, it happens

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My girl will never get the wedding bug, it's nice. She's against getting married altogether for the most part, a least for quite a while. What the ---- is marriage? You get a tax break and that's about it. Domestic partnerships ftw!

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As far as I know, you actually pay MORE taxes if you're married with no kids. :-\ I might as well pop one of those little bastards out here soon so uncle sam doesn't bend me over anymore. :3 They like people who breed and reward them for doing it without being able to afford it. :3
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Haha, you'll be the new lilpooh.

"My girl just crapped out this baby and I got NOSSSS!!!"

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She sounds like she would be a good girl to know/date, but not marry. I say get out why you can and still tap it.

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+41 on the annulment.

Sorry bro but did you not watch a single episode of the documentary named "friends"? i think it was on during the 90s. The one dude had the lesbian ex-wife and it fucked him for life.

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in for lesbian pics... why not just get a 3some going?