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civiceg500 06-12-2005 09:56 PM

Woman Advice Please Help....
 
I wanted to know what you guys would do in this situation. I have a girl friend who i have been dating for 15 months. I've never cheated on her before and she always tells me that i'm the one and there is no other guy in the world she wants. She said she will never let me go. Last wednesday, we broke up for stupid reasons and the fact that we always faught for the last month. We broke up, but still had love for each other. Well, she made out with a guy she just met a week ago when she went to a bar. This guy made moves on here and she freaked out. She came crying back to me today and wants to start over. Should I start over or get out of my life. :'(

Jeter2Karaffa 06-12-2005 10:09 PM

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hmm... this kinda happened to me a few months ago but instead of running back to me she is now dating the guy. How do you feel about the situation? DO you think she is the one? i dont know either way i dont think it will be easy. good luck and i hope it works out for you

civiceg500 06-12-2005 10:12 PM

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The sad part is that i do feel she the one. I want to ---- this guy up so bad!

d16forlife 06-12-2005 10:15 PM

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I say it sounds like you both have some growing up to do.

Go buy a 100 comdoms and have some fun.Then when your 29,sucsesfull and tired of playing the field find yourself a hot little 22 year old to get married with ;)

Why do all you young guys now days want to settle down so young.If I knew then what I know now I would of waited till I was 35 to get married.

Think about it.

Jeter2Karaffa 06-12-2005 10:19 PM

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dude definatly been there man. if my brother wasnt holding me back i couldnt even tell you what would have happened. but i say still ---- him up, i mean does she still talk to him? but yeah if thats how you feel then i say give it another chance, if you broke up over one fight then im sure you could work things out

kain 06-12-2005 10:27 PM

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im 20 and still a virgin

FooK 06-12-2005 10:46 PM

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dude ---- that. you were bickering anyways, so obviously you're not getting along, and she was movin on to the next pretty damn quick it seems like.

at least make her suffer a little.


Originally Posted by kain
im 20 and still a virgin

thats because no one will do you.


big_g_jando 06-12-2005 10:58 PM

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if you want to go out with her then do it... but if you feel like you dont want to then dont ;)

imadouche 06-12-2005 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by d16forlife
I say it sounds like you both have some growing up to do.

Go buy a 100 comdoms and have some fun.Then when your 29,sucsesfull and tired of playing the field find yourself a hot little 22 year old to get married with ;)

Why do all you young guys now days want to settle down so young.If I knew then what I know now I would of waited till I was 35 to get married.

Think about it.

^^^
Best advice

traff1c 06-12-2005 11:43 PM

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In the words of Tom Leykis "Dump That Bitch!"


hotrex 06-12-2005 11:45 PM

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if she made out with the guy, shes a dumb slut..

end of story, your better off without her.

jacob 06-13-2005 12:01 AM

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2 things:

1. Break ups can often lead to stronger ties between people. they let you know what you had and how good it really was. i was dumb enough to break up with my gf and then tried to date other people and nothing worked. then i realized 2 YEARS LATER what a stupid mistake that was. and now were closer than ever.

2. make up sex is ------ awesome

hotrex 06-13-2005 12:08 AM

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yeah jacob, after all those dudes had there cock all up in your woman, and cuming in her, and her enjoying sex with other guys, i could never take her back...

end of story.

KFB 06-13-2005 12:08 AM

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if you have to ask HMT guys then that's kinda bad.
talk to someone (or a few people) who you actually know and whose opinion and advice you respect, preferably older and more experienced.
i don't really understand why you want to ---- up the guy she made out with. i mean, yeah the macho part of you is gonna get heated, but think about it: you two were broken up and it was only a little making out -- and SHE CAME BACK TO YOU. don't worry about that other dude, just think about your situation with the woman. all relationships have ups & downs, so take it as a learning experience and go from there. that is if you feel like she is worth it and that you two can move past this thing. if not, end it now before it gets worse. it sucks sometimes, but the saying really is true: There are other fish in the sea.


MikeJ-2009 06-13-2005 12:24 AM

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I don't know why you wanna fight the other guy. He's just out to get a nut like you. It's the slut that let him you should be mad at.

From the sound of it, both of you are under 20 yrs old, and therefore shouldn't even be in a "serious" relationship anyway.

Let her do her thing, keep her as a booty call, and explore the world.

prelude9384 06-13-2005 12:28 AM

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Break up with her, I just broke up with my g/f of 2.5 years last night. In the end it's the best thing you can do.

FooK 06-13-2005 12:30 AM

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just use her as a warm hole.

jacob 06-13-2005 12:30 AM

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Originally Posted by hotrex
yeah jacob, after all those dudes had there cock all up in your woman, and cuming in her, and her enjoying sex with other guys, i could never take her back...

end of story.

thats because youre superficial and have no inclination as to what it means to be in love with someone. i almost feel sorry for you. oh yea, we got checked before we got back together . no im not an idiot

accordepicenter 06-13-2005 12:37 AM

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ive been in the exact same situation and i refused to take her back... afterwards she went back to the guy she was talking to and was ------- him... forget it. People break up for reasons, ex are exs and should stay that way. And yes, its the bitch you should be mad at, not the other guy, shes being the stupid slut. Dont sleep with her afterward, that ---- just aint worth it.

hotrex 06-13-2005 12:38 AM

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ugh douchebag, i am in a serious relationship as we speak with the best girl alive. beautiful, good head on her shoulders, was a virgin till i got ahold of her and makes good money, we are looking into getting a place as we speak to further our relationship,

so, before you try to insult me, you can kneel before me and suck my cock.

ive been wherever youve been and back about 15 times faggot, dump the slut and move on.


civiceg500 06-13-2005 06:10 AM

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I do want her and i do need her. There is also a plus on the fact that she does tell me everything no matter how small it mayy be. She tells me I'm her first and she plans on marrying me no matter what. She says this was a wake up call for her and wants me there where ever she goes.

con 06-13-2005 09:12 AM

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Just kill yourself and all will be good ;)

ToeJam 06-13-2005 10:09 AM

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You guys were broken up. She is allowed to do anything she wants. I don't understand why you guys are calling her a slut, all she did was make out with someone. If you love her, make it work. It is that simple.

dragon 06-13-2005 10:50 AM

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You weren't together and all she did was make out with someone. Be glad she didn't have sex with the guy. Of course take her back but before find out the problem why you two broke up in the first place. And remember your young and you still have so much ---- you both need to go through sounds like to me. I say work out your ----, take it slow and see what happens from there. Don't be too attached though just take things one day at a time.

jung4g 06-13-2005 11:02 AM

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Need more info on the setup before we can tell you how fast to run.

ie. her measurements - your feelings about her - what were fights about (actually frustrated with each other, or were you upset about other things that you took out on the other) - etc.

Also, pics would help the decision.

Yeah making out with someone else sucks, but what do you expect? She needed to test her feelings for you, and that was the opportunity that presented itself, she couldn't get you off her mind, and stopped to run back to you. That's gotta tell you something. Unless the dude was your best friend and you told him to stay away from her, then you should have nothing against him. If you made out with some chick, you think it was pretty lame if her ex came and wanted to beat you up because of it. Think about it...

tukinnam 06-13-2005 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by imadouche

Originally Posted by d16forlife
I say it sounds like you both have some growing up to do.

Go buy a 100 comdoms and have some fun.Then when your 29,sucsesfull and tired of playing the field find yourself a hot little 22 year old to get married with ;)

Why do all you young guys now days want to settle down so young.If I knew then what I know now I would of waited till I was 35 to get married.

Think about it.

^^^
Best advice


And Kain-- here's what you can do:

Go around the parking lot of the clubs when its closing time (4-5 AM?)
look for a real drunk hoe,
take her in your RX-7,
pump her three times ( uhhhh! )
then leave her in the curb.

civiceg500 06-13-2005 03:15 PM

Re: Woman Advice Please Help....
 
Yeah, i love her and i need to work it out. I guess i'm attracted to innocent girls and that's what made me fall in love with her. I was in a past relationship for 2 years before her and my ex fucked me up in the head and it caused me not to trust women and the things they lie about and do behind my back. We would fight about what she considered to be stupid things, her and my past we would argue about. She made some friends that all they do is hang out at bars and that's fine. But the problem comes when i'm not there and she acts stupid. This is the first time. I wish i could post a pic, but i don't know how to for those who want to know she is about 5'3", size C nockers, medium build, very cute. The thing is that I'm a mellow guy that wants a mellow relationship and that's what she used to be and now she's changing and it sucks.

dragon 06-13-2005 03:17 PM

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Originally Posted by civiceg500
Yeah, i love her and i need to work it out. I guess i'm attracted to innocent girls and that's what made me fall in love with her. I was in a past relationship for 2 years before her and my ex fucked me up in the head and it caused me not to trust women and the things they lie about and do behind my back. We would fight about what she considered to be stupid things, her and my past we would argue about. She made some friends that all they do is hang out at bars and that's fine. But the problem comes when i'm not there and she acts stupid. This is the first time. I wish i could post a pic, but i don't know how to for those who want to know she is about 5'3", size C nockers, medium build, very cute. The thing is that I'm a mellow guy that wants a mellow relationship and that's what she used to be and now she's changing and it sucks.

how old is she and how old r u? If she under 21 then she hasn't gone through that stage were she wants to be a hoe. Just being honest. Sounds like she wants to be one now. If she a good girl she probably wants to be bad now.

civiceg500 06-13-2005 03:28 PM

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Yeah, true that. She's 19 and she told me that she was bad in high school alittle with her friend. She told me that her friend corrupted her for alittle while. I'm 21 and it seems more and more that i need a serious relationship. I'm ready for something stable and serious. ----, I don't care if she is 33. :D

redteg94 06-13-2005 03:43 PM

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if its time for her to be wild then stay with her and enjoy the ------ :)
get back together, if it works it works if not you got some good sex out of the deal....

tukinnam 06-13-2005 03:51 PM

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Originally Posted by civiceg500
Yeah, true that. She's 19 and she told me that she was bad in high school alittle with her friend. She told me that her friend corrupted her for alittle while. I'm 21 and it seems more and more that i need a serious relationship. I'm ready for something stable and serious. ----, I don't care if she is 33. :D

21 and you already want to get tied down? married life isnt what you may think bud. from last i heard, 90% girls under the age of 25 arent done messing around yet. So, finding a 33 yr old woman might help. but, she could be the other 10%.

91 VTEC AKKORD 06-13-2005 03:52 PM

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enjoy all ur cash ass and grass. cause you have all the tyme in the world to be old and married w/kids. but you only have a limmitted tyme to be a kid and free. keep hittn it, and all others that you see. take no names, and never do them at your place. point is.... go have some fun. you have the rest of your life to be chained down. >:D >:D >:D >:D

dragon 06-13-2005 04:01 PM

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I know how you feel man. Im 22 and im done being a hoe myself. I can see why you just want a girl to chill. You can give her another chance if you want to but just keep in mind she might want to explore other guys and start acting like a bad girl. Just giving you heads up. If not she a keeper and those type of girls are rare to find.

And for the 33 year old thing. I banged a chick with kids thats 28 and she wanted to settle down with me. :-X So to me all girls fall in love if the ------- is good.

tukinnam 06-13-2005 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackDragon
I banged a chick with kids thats 28 and she wanted to settle down with me. :-X So to me all girls fall in love if the ------- is good.


dragon 06-13-2005 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by tukinnam

Originally Posted by BlackDragon
I banged a chick with kids thats 28 and she wanted to settle down with me. :-X So to me all girls fall in love if the ------- is good.


and?

88crxSi 06-13-2005 04:30 PM

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thank the guy, he showed her how good you are. give her another chance (she was probably drunk) and stick it in her poop shute.

you now have complete control. >:D

USS 06-14-2005 12:49 PM

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My girl and I have broken up twice, during the first year of us being together (we've been together for over 2 1/2 years now). We both got together with different people. It took that little bit for both of us to realize how good we had it in our relationship. I say you see how it goes, but if she acts up, be prepared to dump her ass.

scottsi 06-14-2005 12:59 PM

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lie and say she raped you and put her in jail

civiceg500 06-14-2005 02:48 PM

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Thank you all for the advice. I figured out what i needed to do. We both want each other still and need each other. So, we planned to take time apart and figure out our differences with each other and make it work better. We will come back to each other one day soon and be ok then. :)

LSD Motorsports 06-14-2005 06:12 PM

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Originally Posted by civiceg500
The sad part is that i do feel she the one. I want to ---- this guy up so bad!

Most of HMT brother gave you all the good advice you need already, the only thing i can add is.... the only way to tell if a girl is the one for you is by being with quite a few and seeing what they have to offer. And no im not talking about their ass. So being that your young, you definately have a lot more experience you will need to go through before you can tell and honestly decide if someone is the one. If you still want her around, then date her and have fun, no committments, sounds like she made the best decision of your life for you by breaking up. so take it for what its worth my friend
Best of luck to yaa both


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