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ok, i starting dating this girl. its been a while and she wants me to meet her dad, i've already met her mom. her mom likes me just doesnt' think we're more than friends. anyways, i have to/want to talk to her dad on next tuesday. Basically to get on his good side. and he heard so much about me that he wants to meet me. Basically while i'm talking to him i was gonna ask him for his permission to date his daughter, (once again they only think we're friends). Have you guys ever had this type of situation? and if so what are some suggestions?? and how did it go for you??? TIA

BTW she's 17 and i'm 18

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haha WTF? Dont ask permission. Dating is just dating, you ask the dad to marry not to date. Just be yourself and if he doesnt like you then fuckem. He will eventually come around if he doesnt like you for the sake of his daughter. just dont act like an ass or nervous, just be the way you are when you are with the girl. He will like you fine if you are yourelf (just dont talk about banging his little girl and how good it is) Parents like you more if you can actually talk to them and relate with them. People are people, he is the same as you just older.

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Jesus dude, its not like your asking for her hand in marriage?.. your just dating! Just act normal/cool in front of dad and you should have no problems unless hes a complete ass. Her dad knows his daughter is going to get banged sooner or later. ;)

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^word. dont call the girl a bitch either, they hate that ----.

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yeah or ho ;D

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Yeah dude your worrying over nothing.

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just tell him she is hot
and you want to make her feel good.
Iam sure he'll understand ;D

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dude, quit being a pansy ;) just act normal, make sure your'e not high or drunk so that you can look him straight in the eyes when you talk to him, if you don't look him in the eyes, he'll think you're shady and won't like you. he's just a person, and a guy at that matter, so all you have to do is act normal and respectable. i think it's stupid that you're asking him to date his daughter, but hey, he might admire you for doing thinking enough of him to ask. if he likes you, the girl will know and she will be stoked so you'll prolly get some snatch that night if all goes well ;D

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just make sure and open doors for her and ---- like that (in front of him) dad's dig that kind of thing. let him talk and respond to what he's saying, rather then the other way around. and when he's not looking, pinch her ass to show her you're not intimidated, she'll fully dig that too. (but make sure he's not looking or it'll backfire)

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if you act to mucj like a gentleman that will be suspicious too.
Anyway you better want him to think that you are a shady litle boy than a scorer that is too self confident..
(did i wrote that on HMT??? ??? :-X )

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also, dont drive a car with a really loud fart can exhaust, they dont always like that

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just be yourself. If you're going to ask then just ask. there is no damn easy way to ask that question.

ooh.. but don't ask at the dinner table! ask after when he's all full and sleepy. lol

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who cares?! he won't unless you do have a big coke booger hanging out your nose... if you're cool with the parents then don't even bring it up, she'll tell them whenever she gets in trouble for some reason. it's natural reflx for girls to say whatever involving whomever to get blame taken off of them.

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i know it sounds kinda odd that i would ask her dad for permission but he's really strict on her and i want to get to the point to where he likes me so much that even if she's in trouble I'D still be able to take her out or chill with her. plus he's kinda old fashioned and would really appreciate the thought of asking permission. oh well

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hmt cracks me up... ;D

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we got ------ on here buying homework, selling hash ;), asking for advice on girlfriends parents, etc., etc. where do you draw the line ???

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lol two of those examples is me, lol.

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man ---- that! where do you guys live? i guess us hispanic's dont worry about that ----! we just hook up and if the parents find out then they just accept! its not like they can really do anything anyways! if there daughter wants to get out and have a boyfriend then let her.....even if the parents may not like him.....she will like him and thats what matters the most right? Think about it, if you two were in love and wanted to get married....even if he didnt approve...you think this is med-evil times where they tell you who to marry? ---- no! just act cool, be yourself and find out what interest him so you guys can have more in common. he is just like you but older! if you guys have things in common you will end up being friends and the part where you're dating his girl wont matter much. sorry for long post.....i'm an idiot! just hit those cheeks ;D

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mission accomplished, lol. :o

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DONT DATE GIRLS.....JUST hit their cheeks
and go out every now and then (until you get old like me)

dude you're 18 wtf are you doing with a commited relationship!!!

Dont do burn outs in their driveway (did this to my ex once lol)

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lol yea i know i'm not usually into relationships but for some reason this girls has something that i can't resist.

kinda off topic but you sounded like tom lycus (sp?) on your last post. do you listen?

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he speaks the truth, just say no to commitment. i went through the same thing a couple years ago, i was 19 getting fucked up, pulling mad ass, it was a blast, then i met a girl whom we had mutual friends and started dating, next thing you know, i was trapped, there was just something about her. now i'm 22 and married, best years of my ass pulling are officially wasted, but hey if you're ready for all of this (like i thought i was), then go for it, if not, go ahead and split before you meet the parents, you already hit it, what's left to do? go get you something new for the weekend ;D

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are you talking about tom lycus speaking the truth??? if so i know i usually have no problems with what he says and actively participate in lycus 101. lol. its just i think i am ready for a serious type relationship and i feel different about this girl more then i've ever felt for anyone. plus i've pulled enough ass for now also

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be yourself. if they dont like it then ---- em

hmt love

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Dedicated student of Leykus 101...and yes it has changed my life. So much better now...

In college I met up with this really hot/smart girl and we moved in together. After about a year I started feeling "stuck" and traped she was a "typical princess" and expected to be treated like one all the time. I started to get depressed and my friends stopped calling me.
I really felt like I was wasting away.

Fortunatly we had no kids, and in my senior year of college I cheated on her to end it. Best thing I ever did, but I was really really miserable.

Thats when I started listening to Leykus, at first I thought he was kind of funny and WAY out there, but he does speak the truth. I started to take the upper hand with girls. I dont treat them as bad as he says, but I dont ever let them get the better of me. I never call them (unless I want something) And to be really truthfull the girls are actually happier (its really freakin wierd but it is true)

Im dating this girl now and compared to how I treated my live in girl friend... I treat her like crap, and both of us are really freakin happy....

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yea i know, he's the professor. i know it works i'ved used it many times but i think i'm in love with this girl. i usually wouldn't have a problem tappin it and leaving but she's different.

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I've been where you are at (19 years old for me when I fell in love), it usually happens about then, my 19 year old cousin is ruining his life because of a girl...flunked out of engineering at OSU.

I think a lot of us older guys have been there, and all of us say DONT DO IT, but really I think you have to find out on your own. Id tell my cousin all the time that his girl was changing him, and ruining his life, but hed just get pissed and walk away.

Just remember if you can get this at 19, then imagine what you can get when 30+ and making good money.
I graduated from college a little while ago, and for the first time in my life, pulling decent cash in a promising career. Girls who wouldnt give me the time of day know who I am now. The Late stand girls give me free cookies, and it just feels really freakin good.

If you're going to see this girl, just make sure it doesnt "get the better of you"

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yea i know what your talking about. my cousin and his best friend never had girlfriends and they met these two girls that were friends and they've only been going out for less than a year and both are now engaged b/c their in 'love', which i know thier not because you can tell when someone is in love and tehy don't act like it at all. their just whipped. that won't happen to me i guarantee it, even if i'm in love if she asks for a ring she's not gettin it until i'm at least 28 and i doubt it by then. if i'm even still with her. doubt it.

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hey, who is that lycus guy you are talking about?? sounds to me like he knows all the do's and dont's with the ladies...

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OK, a lot of people have posted, and I got sick of reading everyones posts, but my advice is the same as many before me.

Be yourself, be polite, and don't make him hate you. Having a strict dad is probably hard enough on the girl, having him also hate her boyfriend would be real rough, and ruin you two.Just be truthful (to an extent) and relate to him. It'll be cool.

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Hellooooooooo greddycrx, we are talking about Tom Leykus, he hosts a talk radio show. It's the best show to listn to, i'm 18 and like alot of music and from 6-10 when i deliver pizzas the station doesn't change. He's on 95.9 fm near me i don't know if its different in your area? Go to him, listen to him, live by him!

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yeah its called a vagina! ;D

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^LOL isnt that the truth. Ive got into a few relationships I didnt want to be in just because I kept going back for the uhhhhh, you know. Dont let the ass trap you, if it does just go get some other ass to reassure yourself that there is plenty of good ass out there. I dont know though. I've also left girls because the sex sucked too. Ahh what the ---- do I know though. ;D

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THE BEST LINE

"My intentions are as honourable as they day you met your wife"

I don't care what you say, that is the best line ;D

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yea but the day he met his wife he was probably only thinking about getting some ass! :o. maybe i should just tell him i wanna ---- his daughter when hes at home and have him not worry about it cuz she's in good hands. lol

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if he doesnt like you, ---- her, take pics, upload it, then send a link to her dad.

Nick

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If your gonna go the whole relationship route, don't ask him to date her, tell him what you like about his daughter and tell him you would like to date her. If you ask him a yes or no question, he might feel (and you too) that the decision is up to him. Just be cool and tell him.
Ok, Tom Lykis is a fucken slob. I don't care what any of you knuckleheads think. I started listening to his show because it was funny. Then you start to notice that he doesn't ever talk about anything different than dissing bitches. Alot of bitches deserve to be dissed, but if you talk about one thing 24 hours a day, eventually you just get boring. On top of all that, I saw that fag at a Kings game and the dude is the fattest, ugliest piece of ---- I've ever seen in my life. If you guys saw this guy, you'd be like, "I can't believe this slob has ever had a girlfriend." You guys think your getting good advice? I think your wasting your time listening to a old guy that has always been, "that fat ugly kid" in school. I really think he's been dissed his whole life, and that's why he feels so angry about women. ---- it, I'll show you what a slob this guy is. :-*

Sorry to hijack.

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---- bitches. Gimme a fat slut that cooks and does dishes. 8)

No but seriously, I would feel like such a tool if I asked my chicks dad if I could date her. He has to know that since I'm spending all this time with her and talking all the time that I'm hitting that ----. If he doesn't know by now, he's a dumbass and forgets what it was like to be young. I couldn't imagine asking if I could date someones daughter. That sounds so retarded. I could picture a VERY uncomfortable experience ending in an awkward silence followed by some strange looks. :-\ ---- that. Anyways, parents seem to love me. I don't know what it is. I don't even have to try. I could walk in to thier house shitfaced drunk stumbling around and they would still love me. Trust me, it's happened. :-[
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Who would have thought your hero is this fucken nerd?
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Is that the "ladies man"? Rockin' the Ray Bans. 8)
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