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Ill probably just get flamed or retarded comments, but I'd figure I'd try anyways. I went out with this girl friday night, it went well and she is really cool. I was thinking about leaving a couple flowers on her car one morning or something, probably this wednesday since ill see her wednesday night. What do you guys think? too early for ---- like that or no

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One date and you're already whipped, that's impressive! The old me would do something like that. But the new me realises that they are the ones that get whipped when you DON'T give in and do all the corney stuff. Play hard to get, make them call you.

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too early, unless she sucked your cock

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Sure man go for it.

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Nothing like seeming desperate.


Prediction: She will sense your weakness and bleed you dry financially and emotionally until there is nothing left. At this point when you are completely destroyed she will than leave you for someone better than you. Go for it.

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^^^ what they said.

I'd wait at least 3-4 weeks MINIMUM before getting a girl flowers or doing something nice like that for her. She'll be like awwww how sweet! While she will be thinking awwww, what a -----!

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dont do it your going to scare her off or she thinks she can control you

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nailed it soild.

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omfg you guys are ------- paranoid.

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na, we just know how vagina works. its more predictable than a car ;)

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---- that, no girl deserves that ---- unless she has worked for it. You have to contorl the relationship, not her. if you leave flowers now, they^ are right. She'll think you are a -----. Guys who aren't confident with women think they can do ---- like leave flowers are buy them nice gifts to get in a girls pants. Be confident and make her work for it.

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omg giving her flowers doesn't determine the rest of your relationship.

I think you guys need to work on your communication skillz with the females. Bring her flowers and she'll think its sweet and like you more. She'll only see it as a sign of weakness if you are a weak ----------er.

You can be confident and soft-hearted at the same time. that's what teh beazies love.

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Well for ----'s sake man, if you're absolutely going to do it, give her some flowers you picked. Save some dough.

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You call it paranoia but we're just living in the real world. People only want what they can't have thats why if a chick thinks your desperate to be with her than naturally she's going to be less interested in you because its too easy. Ever notice how some of the hottest girls on the planet are with the biggest douchebags guys that beat them and cheat on them? There's a reason for that.

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that well ------ put :y

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don't do it,

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I agree about being nice and still confident, but after one date, you dont want to come off over attactched, flowers is too early. O0

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alright, thanks for the advice guys. I guess I'll wait a while and see how it goes. Damn I hate waiting :S

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bah you guys wanna seem like hardass pimps. something wierd like leaving flowers on her car might not be the best thing to do. but if you brang a little flower for her when you pick her up, only good things will happen...

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i dont want to seem like a hardass pimp, im nothing of the sort. but i dont trust anything with a vagina anymore :-\

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girls are stupid and its easy to get them. except leeann of course she is smart as a bug and a tease

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do it you might het laid some girls go crazy over that stuff

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then you got one of the good "beazies" they're extreamly rare. good find. havent managed to find one around here.

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im not saying this girl is a lot different than other girls, but she's not like a popular blonde ditz or some ----. I dunno.. I think it would work, but that's probably just because of my lack of experience :-\

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on the other hand, even if I said go for it...there's no harm done in waiting.

However I do agree that maybe if you just brought 1 tiny flower or something next time you see her then it would probably be a pleasant surprise.

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she make you put that part? :P

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ya ;)

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girls like unexpected surprises and random acts of "sweetness".

maybe wait til like date 2 or 3 and do it after that, just so you know things are more solid.

either way, i seriously doubt it could be a bad thing.

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that was my thinking, I'll probably just pick a flower when we're walking back to her car after class and give it to her. Which is good because it's free :D

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suprise her with it dont do it while she is there

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yeah thats not unexpected.

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leave her a rose on her car you might get a bj your next date

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act interested but not desperate. women love it when you know you can go elsewhere if they don't perform. drives them wild. makes them work for the cock.

that's how mine is anyhow. good thing she's bi and has lots of girlfriends. she likes to keep things "interesting" with us.

all because she knows I don't NEED her.

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sounds like a healthy relationship :-X

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When you do it, don't buy flowers, pick them from your neighbors garden... that one bitch that watches everything your street does and calls the cops. You know who I'm talkin' about!
edit: ---- didn't see the above posts. Oh well, do it anyway. Lie, cheat, and steal mother fucker!

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It worked for me. :-\ I've never given a girl flowers in my life until recently. I left her a rose on her car with a little note. She couldn't say no after that. :P I dunno, it got me laid. :6

Girls love flowers. It's not just the flower, it's the idea that you were thinking about her and you went out of your way and brought her something that you knew was going to make her happy.

Now, if she's just some slut you want to stick your garbage in and dump her on the corner then under no circumstances should you bring her flowers. ---- em' and dump em'. :6
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1 flower =sweet after a date.
A dozen= Holy ----, this dude never gets laid and if I give him some, he is going to be sprung like a mother fucker and sitting outside my house and calling every 20 minutes to see what I am doing.
Keep it simple. She will know you have been thinking about her. Plus, if things work out, you will just have to top it next time you get her something. If you start big, you just have to go bigger next time.

By the way, this is the opinion of a girl.

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I call bullshit. :P
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haha