View Poll Results: Would you allow you grilfriend to go out to a public with her top half body painted?
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Poll: Allow GF/Wife bodypainted in public?
02-05-2006, 01:30 PM
#72
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Re: Poll: Allow GF/Wife bodypainted in public?
Originally Posted by jecu
I mean, it goes the same way with guys. Lets say you told ur girl that you were goin to a strip bar with your buddies for the night and were gona be drinking and ----. Then she told you that she wasnt comfortable or didnt like the idea, that should be more than enough reason for you to not go. Or atleast compromise, just like you did. Tell her that you wont drink and that you wont stay there long. U gota keep both ends happy, no matter what or else one of you is gona end up holding a grudge for a while.
You told her that she should do it for 1 hour and after that hour you would see how you felt, thats good, thats compromising. She should be happy that she can do it for one hour. I mean, sure it is HER body, she should be able to do whatever she wants right? But guess what, its also your feelings that are getting hurt/messed with. She should understand that. If she can't see that, then you should really rethink if she's marriage material.
To those guys that would let her do it, not everyone wants a girl that shows her **** and body to every guy. some of us dont like that kind of ----. I mean, if your girl shows her **** to everyone, its not special when she shows em to you. You're just another guy. I duno, I cant explain it. but its all about morals and love and feelings and ----.
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02-05-2006, 01:31 PM
#73
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Re: Poll: Allow GF/Wife bodypainted in public?
So what the ---- if she is gonna walk around out side topless why the ---- can't she be on HMT topless, you need to regulate and start telling her what the ---- is going to happen not vice versa. once she starts telling you what the rules are say good night
02-05-2006, 02:10 PM
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Re: Poll: Allow GF/Wife bodypainted in public?
Originally Posted by jdmcord
To those guys that would let her do it, not everyone wants a girl that shows her **** and body to every guy.
Originally Posted by jdmcord
its all about morals and love and feelings and ----.
02-05-2006, 02:31 PM
#76
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Re: Poll: Allow GF/Wife bodypainted in public?
Originally Posted by buk9tp
'EDIf you back down on issues like this, you obviously don't have any solid morals and ethics. NO GOOD will come from a relationship where you can't stand your ground on issues that are totally ------- retarded.
Give em an inch and they will take a mile... Just wait and see.
PS: Im a happily married man, and my wife and I talk about all kinds of ----. But she knows that if she ever thought it was ok to flirt with another man, show her body (marti gras, and other ----), or otherwise be unfaithful to me and our relationship, that I would kick her *** to the curb. There is no reason to step back and question whether or not you want your girl/wifes private parts being shown out in the open. There is also no reason for you to question the decision you have made about her not being alowed to do it. Why be uncomfortable and irritated at her doing ---- that you will have to look back on and be disgusted by? It will eat at you, there is no denying that, because you didn't want the ---- to happen in the first place. That is kinda like the thoughts I have with lesbian sex. I have read these stories and heard others of wives letting husbands watch them do it all with a women, and hoenstly, that ---- just doesn't do it for me, and if my wife were the one doing it, I would be changed.. Who knows what would happen in the time that followed. *cough*divorce*cough* why? because lesbians have the worst ------- taste in women, and they don't stop doing it once they start(my dad dated a lesbian, I know what Im talking about).
My $.02 take it or leave it.
02-05-2006, 02:56 PM
#77
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Re: Poll: Allow GF/Wife bodypainted in public?
^^^you must be 18-24 as well 
at least you're thinking like one.
I'm 29, married and two kids. I would never give two fat ***** if my wife wanted to show her ****(and she has, NUMEROUS times durring Spring Break in PCB, FL). WHO ------- CARES.
If you both TRUST each other, it shouldnt be an issue. You should be comfortable with the fact that you know who she's coming home to(you, hopefully).
Sooo....if your wife showed her **** at Mardis Gras, you'd divorce her? "Happily married", huh.
I'll bet you dont let her go out by herself or with her friends, do you
? Or you interogate her when she's 20 seconds late coming home.
at least you're thinking like one.I'm 29, married and two kids. I would never give two fat ***** if my wife wanted to show her ****(and she has, NUMEROUS times durring Spring Break in PCB, FL). WHO ------- CARES.
If you both TRUST each other, it shouldnt be an issue. You should be comfortable with the fact that you know who she's coming home to(you, hopefully).
PS: Im a happily married man, and my wife and I talk about all kinds of ----. But she knows that if she ever thought it was ok to flirt with another man, show her body (marti gras, and other ----), or otherwise be unfaithful to me and our relationship, that I would kick her *** to the curb. There is no reason to step back and question whether or not you want your girl/wifes private parts being shown out in the open. There is also no reason for you to question the decision you have made about her not being alowed to do it. Why be uncomfortable and irritated at her doing ---- that you will have to look back on and be disgusted by? It will eat at you, there is no denying that, because you didn't want the ---- to happen in the first place. That is kinda like the thoughts I have with lesbian sex. I have read these stories and heard others of wives letting husbands watch them do it all with a women, and hoenstly, that ---- just doesn't do it for me, and if my wife were the one doing it, I would be changed.. Who knows what would happen in the time that followed. *cough*divorce*cough* why? because lesbians have the worst ------- taste in women, and they don't stop doing it once they start(my dad dated a lesbian, I know what Im talking about).
My $.02 take it or leave it.
My $.02 take it or leave it.
I'll bet you dont let her go out by herself or with her friends, do you
? Or you interogate her when she's 20 seconds late coming home.
02-05-2006, 05:20 PM
#79
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Re: Poll: Allow GF/Wife bodypainted in public?
Little story...
A couple years ago at ozzfest in alpine valley, wisconsin, my girlfriend (who I did and still do consider marrage material) got her **** painted. At first I was iffy about it, but I told her "hey, I can't tell you what you can and can't do." All day, guys were checking her out, taking pics, telling me how lucky I am, shaking my hand, one guy even gave her $30 for being hot and naked and gave me $20 for being ok with my girl being naked around 60,000 horny metal-heads. After that day, our relationship actually became stronger, because I realized that no matter how many guys want her, no matter how many guys took pics of her, no matter how uncomfortable I was with it at first, at the end of the day......she was comming home with me.
BIG BONUS!!!! With her getting checked out all day, she was getting horny as ----, and with me seeing her getting checked out and knowing that no matter what happens, she's mine, I was also getting horny as ----. Within 10 minutes of being back at our hotel we were both in the shower ------- like rabbits.
I see your point about one thing leading to another, but since then nothing has happened. She has said that if we go to another big "fest" like that again she will do it again (and even though it hasn't been said, we're both looking foreward to it).
The one, AND ONLY, downside to the whole situation is: I didn't have a camera, and no matter how long I search, I can't find any pics of it on the internet.
What it really comes down to, is no matter how long you have been dating or married, you can't control anyone but yourself. If you put limits on her like you are trying to train a dog, she will hold a grudge against you forever. If you are confident in your relationship, confident in yourself, and can get over your jealousy it will go MUCH better than you can possibly imagine.
Just my $.02
A couple years ago at ozzfest in alpine valley, wisconsin, my girlfriend (who I did and still do consider marrage material) got her **** painted. At first I was iffy about it, but I told her "hey, I can't tell you what you can and can't do." All day, guys were checking her out, taking pics, telling me how lucky I am, shaking my hand, one guy even gave her $30 for being hot and naked and gave me $20 for being ok with my girl being naked around 60,000 horny metal-heads. After that day, our relationship actually became stronger, because I realized that no matter how many guys want her, no matter how many guys took pics of her, no matter how uncomfortable I was with it at first, at the end of the day......she was comming home with me.
BIG BONUS!!!! With her getting checked out all day, she was getting horny as ----, and with me seeing her getting checked out and knowing that no matter what happens, she's mine, I was also getting horny as ----. Within 10 minutes of being back at our hotel we were both in the shower ------- like rabbits.
I see your point about one thing leading to another, but since then nothing has happened. She has said that if we go to another big "fest" like that again she will do it again (and even though it hasn't been said, we're both looking foreward to it).
The one, AND ONLY, downside to the whole situation is: I didn't have a camera, and no matter how long I search, I can't find any pics of it on the internet.
What it really comes down to, is no matter how long you have been dating or married, you can't control anyone but yourself. If you put limits on her like you are trying to train a dog, she will hold a grudge against you forever. If you are confident in your relationship, confident in yourself, and can get over your jealousy it will go MUCH better than you can possibly imagine.
Just my $.02
