Tom-Guy

---- SEX?

Smooth_Imports

OK let me try and chime in here,
I'm in the same boat but on a much higher level, me and my girl have been together for 7 1/2 years, about 3/4 months ago there was a huge blow out and we broke up. she moved out of my house, we closed our joint accounts the whole 9. After a fwe weeks i tryed to get over her by hitting up the bars and just hooking up with random chick, even brought a few home and smashed *** all night long. I still found myself waking up in the morning yerning for the girl i lost. Now fast forward to today, We are still not living together but have been talking / working things out. We have talked about moving bck in with each other, getting married and moving forward in life. Me i'm 25 and i'm ready to take the next step in life, wife, kids ect. i don't know how old you are and were your at in your life. One thing i will tell you is that THINGS ARE NEVER MEANT TO BE IT'S WORK it may be easy at times and it's gonna be hard at times, it's the hard times that determain were your relationship is really at, it's never going to be all ----'s and giggles, your gonna have bumps in the raod, it's all about compromise and how you can handle the situation together.

Donald125

That`s the part that i am not certain about. I am pretty sure everything will work just fine with this girl since I know pretty much everything about her and vise verse.

fastcivicboy

Damn guys I almost forgot I made this thread. Iv'e been busy trying to win my girl back. Thanks for all the feedback I do appreciate it. Im only 20 to whoever asked. This girl was so damn good and it is hard to find girls like that these days. Seriously shes hot as ---- (columbian), smart, her parents well off, the list goes on and on. I dont know why I took things for granted. Im def. not wanting to hook up with any ***** (that ---- got old in the past). I dont know it just sucks when you know things can be Great and have all intentions to makes things the best they possibly can and you cant get that one CHANCE. Im feeling short changed. Oh well I got to go guys the clubs going to be popping tonight and im pretty sure she will be there. Peace ------!

blackice90hb

HAHAHA dude you sound just like me a month ago. Take it from me: LET THE BITCH GO
And duck spoiling your G/F. If she treats you like ---- to begin with, buying her ---- and letting her get away with acting however towards you, she's not gonna respect you, just gonna take for granted all the ---- you do for her, take advantage of you, then leave your *** once you wisen up and start treating her like she does you. My Ex. did the same ---- to me. We dated almost 2 1/2 years. I would have gave my life for that bitch, but she always acted like she didnt give a ---- about me most of the time. We split up 2ce but got back to gether before prom, then she left me 2-3 weeks ago cause I started treating her *** like she treated me. Apparently she didnt like it-we got in a argument, I tried to be mature and apologize afterwards, and then she left me. I was like ---- it, your a stubborn bitch, thanks for wasting my money and 2 1/2 yrs of my life. I ------- didnt go to UTI in orlando cause I didnt want to leave her, and this is the ---- she pulled. I had a new girl bythat next week so it didnt really make a difference I guess. I'd go more into it but I dont feel like it or care. If you ask I will tho.

But in general its ghey. Let ---- be ----, stop trying to make old ---- better if it was ---- to begin with. ----.

bmaca455

---- works like a charm, even better if she knows about it then you can laugh when she turns into a ----- trying to make you jelous.

samson

Thread Jack and I need some advice now.


So before I wouldn't talk to her and then we did just text and she sent wrong texts to me how she'd be going out with another guy. NOW:

A) Jealously Card
B) Dumb Mistake (several times )
C) Make Me Made being a meany

Well, stopped talking because I don't play games. Last night texts me says "Hey!!" and I don't respond. AOL that night she messages me and asks me about it and I was being smart to her and like "I guess we don't talk anymore." Said my side I just was busy going to bed bye. Today she sends my buddy a text in conversation saying "I get it all the time from my new boy". Mind you she's not a virgin, but is no ----- or anything. Had sex with only BFs and like 1 "mistake freind" or whatever that is in the past. I wouldn't really put it past her though so:

A) Jealously Card to an Extreme (lying)
B) Jealously Card to an Extreme (true)
C) Get back at me for not texting at her beckoning
D) Just straight up mean again


Sorry to jack, but I hate to even say it bothers me, but I'd lie if I said it didn't. Honest opinions. Thanks guys.



JP

salesmonkey

for one shes a girl she's a girl. let me list her problems.
1. shes a girl, girls sometimes arent that bright and dont see anything wrong with what there doing.
2. shes trying to make you jealous no matter what she says.
3. could be lieing or telling the truth about being on some other guys nuts. either way shes a ----- for saying it to you and your friend
4. somethings wrong with her to delight into trying to enrage you with text's and messages about her.
5. let it go and dont even talk to her. unless (first she dumps whoever shes going out with, then appoligizes to you, buys you something for you car, then lets you do the whirlewind on her)

you need to compelty forget about the girl. the only reason your always thinking about her is becuase you have been with her for so long. and every day you would talk to her, see her, think about her. but it stops now. give it at least a few weeks of not thinking about her at least before you try to think about her.

HondaTuner

Oh man Josh.. I'd never think she was that way from the way you talked about her -_-

I'd say its a mix of all 4 maybe...

samson

Yea Dan, I found a winner. You ain't kiddin' either, bub. She can go hot or cold at the drop of a hat.

Salesmonkey, I like you. Good advice. Got done texting it over with a girl freind (not combined just a freind that's a chick) and she agrees like you do. Jealousy, whether did or didn't, that's her goal. My Dad said before and I see it now (freind agreed also) I didn't jump to text her back or really WANT her back and it kills her so I figure she is just trying to attack. Sucks because last time I tried to be nice she sent me those texts as afore mentioned. Like, she won't just be freinds kind of deal then says "sorry, I didn't mean to send it to you" Ha, like the time the movie we were going to see she saw it with some dude. Annnnnyway,


Thanks alot. I needed that. LOL. My only deal (besides letting this fade) is meeting NEW chicks, you know? Try to get my mind elsewhere. My work and what not makes it awfully hard to find chicks I don't know that aren't freinds. I have faith in God, I'll get some ladies. LOL. :P


JP