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don't give a ---- if i sound like a -----.

so basically, i've got nothing going for me in life, except a girl who is also my best friend. recently/soon to be convited of a major crime, car was totaled, ppl giving me ---- at school, very close to not graduating (and just a month away) in debt $3k and growing, etc etc. and basically, this girl who i care about a lot and cares a lot about me too, is scared to be with me for a couple minor reasons that she could get over.. but the main thing is my "immaturity" i guess you could call it. i'm basically unable to do homework and take care of business like that. i completely flaked on a peice of my senior project that was due today and basically wouldn't have even done it if she hadn't come over at 10pm to do it for me. but I really hate homework, like i've had my ---- sitting here in front of me the last 45 minutes knowing I HAVE to do it, in order to 1) graduate, and 2) be with her. we've been good friends for 4 years, and the un-spoken feelings have always been there, and just recently it's been open. she has a bf though.. but it's mostly to please her parents- he's the same ethnicity as she is, and so obviously that makes her parents proud.

so basically, I need to change into someone who can do their own ----.. but i have no idea how. it's not like I can fake it, because I really hate hwk. classes with no homework I get B's and A's in. any idea's on how to make myself do homework so i can graduate and finally ---- this girl? my mom's tried taking away my tv, xbox and computer, and basically I sit in bed and sleep or sit and be bored rather than do my ------- homework.

i don't know what to do, i've basically hit rock bottom. killed a 6 pack of corona by myself last night, just for shits n giggles.

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---- it, go rape a hooker

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on a serious note......i use to feel exactly like you do now. the best advise i can give you..........

if you think youve hit rock bottom......you can only go up from here

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go climb a mountain...


im serious u'll feel better, and if not....well hey you can always jump off afterwards :y


j/p we all go through gay stages in life, just ride the wave

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you gota spend lots of time thinking. just thinking of anything. prioritizing, finding out whats imortant in your life right now and for the future. nothing we say will help you unless you want to get better. its all in your mind.

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that's what my mom keeps telling me :l

see that's whats hard. i want to graduate, i want to be with her (like, for a long time, possibly even forever), i want to be successful. but im not up to doing all the work that's required to get there :-X

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I agree, I was a lot like you and never did ---- even though I needed to do it.

It almost sounds like the fact you know you need to do ---- almost seems like you are doing this as a cry for help. You need motivation, such as the fact that you aren't gonna be with this girl, you aren't gonna get very far without a HS degree, etc. I also think that girlfriends can be a huge unmotivator at this age.

Anyways, you will figure it out, maybe you just need a big scare to get you there, I did, and am now doing quite well as a junior at WWU...

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Everyone feels "senioritis" during senior projects and the end of high school. Its normal. I hated homework all of highschool, and i still do in college, but its something you just kind of learn to deal with, and don't worry about having a kickass senior project because if you have made it to the point of having a senior project, there is almost no way you will fail your senior year... there are good times and bad times in life, and when you have experienced a few bad times, the good are just that much better when they roll your way :)
pain it temporary, victory is forever.

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just do what it takes to graduate. im sure you got stupider and lazier people around you passing. why shouldnt you pass. its just going to complicate things more if you just dont pass. have your gf come call you up every night to make sure your done with your homework. your thinking to much of this girl too. remember if she lets you down your going to hate her, and shes not going to be your best friend. do it for yourself and your future. stop thinking about everything else happening in your life and just GIT ER DONE

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you are in high school. high school is ------- retarded, trust me, things get a lot better outside of that hell hole. honestly, work your ass off for your next two months, graduate and drive off giving it the bird and know you can only go places once you are out of it. btw a quick check up with your doc about depression would probably be in order...

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HEY! i know the girl and BF!
but man i dont know what to tell u.. hes my boy and shes coo too.. but things dont always go as you want them.. :-\
Rocky is not a bad guy so cant really complain about him..
should try get life straight before u start thinkin about the girl.. bc they always ---- it UP! most of the time...

just try to graduate and ur DONE! thats how i thought of it..

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aint ---- we can say man that will go poof your good now. Its up to you pull your head out your ass for get the girl and and work for your self man. I was in the smae ---- and still kinda am..i am poor broke ass mother fucker disowned by my family just had my turbo ---- the bucket on meh. I aint sad i just ---- it and work towards the ---- i wanna go for. meh and my 2 friends are in the same boat..we just push it and push it...its gotta go from within man..u eaither do it for you outa being scared to fail...or scared by something else.... mine was going face first through a hb windshield a around 70mph in a head on....

good luck man push it and go for broke and settle for nothing

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you are screwed up in the head. focus on you and what you need to get done.

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I was there about this time last year, I barely graduated and didnt really give a ---- what happened after high school. Best advice I could give you is get a decent job til you have worked off your debt and get an education, take college seriously and dont piss away even more money, you wont regret it.

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teenage hormones own you.

just be glad you got a roof over your head and a tummy full of food. there are alot of people out there with REAL problems.

You being lazy is not one of them. get over yourself and get to work.

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Store everything in a damn closet, put a key'd lock on that ---- and give it to your mom. People don't understand that, as much highschool sucks, it's really important for setting up your future (god that sounds cliche)... but at the same time, school isn't for everybody. Get your priorities straight, figure out what you want to do. I doubt you and this girl will ever have a future together, but if you do that's awesome.

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Then hang yourself, lazy ass ::)

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Take one thing at a time. Graduate high school; make that your #1 priority right now.

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The girl should be the least of your worries right now. If you guys feel like that about each other and if it was meant to be, dont worry, it'll work out in the end. But for now, you need to concentrate on graduating. Theres nothing any of us can say or do to make things better. You just have to get up and get things done. I say you need to go out and find a good job. Get your life straight before the girl, because girls will complicate things alot. Plus a good job will teach you responsibility. I also think you need to find God, talk to me, Sinister, or Samson.

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haha yeah NEVER change your lifestyle for a girl or improve yourself for one, because a majority of the time the crap don't work out then you revert back to your shitty self.

Do it for yourself, get off your ass.

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that because they are right. there no other way to go put up. you might stumble a couple times but see it as nothing worse can happen after this but good things

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bottom line is, stop being a cry baby and wanting things without working for them.

if you want things, you gota earn them. suck it up.

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NOt really you can always go further with the help of a shovel. But really, if she's been your "friend" for 4 years and you've yet to nail you never will. Guys don't have girl "friends". There just girls you haven't fucked yet. Thats why I don't have any female friends cause I just want to get in their pants. Plain and simple. You sound really emo and all you need to do is start cutting yourself or something.

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about the 3k get a high paying job and if its those debts with drug dealers umm i dont want to give u a negative advise but be realistic they will ---- you up so i suggest steling drug traficking any easy way to get the money i used to have that problem

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Yeah, also, it may not sound like a good idea to you but ditch the ho, she is probably causing you more debt somehow or another.

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yup

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hmm so it seems everyone agree's, to ditch the girl and work on school.. damnit

but yea, im sure she is a little bit of a drainer on the money.. and part of the debt is to her, she was in the car in my accident and i guess her back got hurt so she just had to go see a chiropractor for a ---- ton of times and since we didn't go through insurance on the accident.. $$$$ almost up to a grand, and she's not done with her "treatment" yet. gay

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if she liked you or really wanted to have anything to do with you she would not be worrying about the "treatment" ask anyone on here.

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Almost $1000 in chiropractor bills? ---- dude, my chiro charges me $35 per adjustment... thats like 30 times going to the chiropractor! Even after my first accident (the hardest on my body) I only went like 5-6 times to get adjusted. Why the hell did she go back so many times?

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the doctor was adjusting more then her spine.

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My doc still only charged the same amount of moola and adjusted my neck, shoulders, arms, legs, etc.

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Things aren't that bad even though right now you may think things can't get any worst.
Trust me, I'm 25 just split up with my fiance (7 ------- years we were together) i'm about 18,000 in dept and finally just now got off of perole (not probation perole) for some fucked up ---- i did when i was younger.

Don't change just because someone wants you to, if you really want to change for you, and i mean realyl change yourself then you need to jump into it head first and get everything in your life thats stopping you from doing it out ASAP. At your age i thought i was in the worst place i ever could be, looking at 5 years in prision, no familly, homless, the list goes on and on, ---- i used to even get so down on myself that i would just take razors and cut the ---- out of my body just to release the pressure, but that never worked and all i have are scares to remind me of the hard times. Life will get better you just have to work on it and push on through the ----. Now looking back i realize the problems i had then are nothing compaired to what i'm dealing with now, but there was a nice few year stretch were life was great. Your always going to have up's and downs just try and make the best of things when your up and when your down try and stay low and not do anything rash until your up again. As for your girl, ---- i can't give you any help there, i got involved with my X when i was 18 and now at 25 we just split up, i don't know if were going to get back together or stay split up but i do know one thing, I need to do whats best for me and if that doesn't include her being with me then so be it. You need to do you, because if you don't do you no one else will!

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Why are you bitching. You said yourself that you know exactly what you need to do and how toget it done, but you still dont do it. Just sit down and do it. Ifthats all thats holding you back then consider your self lucky

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I'm sorry i don't feel bad for you, it's simple, you have to Grow Up. You know what to do, and you know what will happen if you don't. It's up to you to make it better. What happened before you can't change, but you can change what happens now.

If you don't want to do homework, you are just lazy and never applied yourself to something. Life sucks in some ways, you will always have to do things you don't really like to do, but guess what it's part of living. Think about the consequences of your decisions, including your studies, your love life, the way you drive, everything has a consequence depending on what decision you take. It's up to you to make the correct one, and when something happens, don't blame anyone but yourself.

You have the power to change what will happen to you, it's easy. If someone wants to race you, let them die alone. If you decide not to do you homework, think about life after not having finished school. If you think it sucks now, wait until you hit reality. Think about your goals in life. I doubt you want to be a loser, with no education, no job, no girl, on probation, living with your parents at 25. You have time to change, use it wisely.

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you are one lazy ----. Luckily i got ahead in my early high school years and during my senior year i didnt do anything. i still graduated 8), goes to show when you work hard it'll all pay off in the end. So get off your ass and ------- do something about. No one can tell you what you should and shouldn't do when you, yourself are the only person that can do anything about it. If all else fails you can just kill yourself and be done with it. :1

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I love the complete difference between the endings of both of those paragraphs ;D

Both are right though, man. I'd listen to the older guys here, they've been through this and know all about it.

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Just get your ---- done, youre in the homestretch now, if you ---- it up its a real waste of your future over what, a couple months of work and a girl? Don't make the same mistake i did when i was your age, I met a girl from another school, hung out with her constantly(but i got to ---- her all the time) and i didn't hang with my real friends during the best time of our lives. Now all i got is some shitty memories of some stupid bitch that broke up with me a few weeks after going away to college, probably blowin' dudes left and right. Anyhow I know how you felt, there was definitely a safety net when you are in high school, and when you see an end in sight it scares the ---- out of you. But first and foremost just get high school done, then you can work or go to school or whatever, you won't be pressed for time like you are now. If it takes that girl to baby sit you through your homework and shes' willing to do it, then so be it. You'll be glad you did when you finally grow up. And 3 grand is nothing, you can work that off in a summer if you try hard enough. Just keep it real.

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don't be a dumbass.... do your work and graduate. You swear like ti's hard work. Get off your lazy ass and finish that ----. Graduation is a month away and you'd rather not graduate and become a shithead? Go fucken finish that ---- or else you are just a waste. 13 years of schooling to throw it away with only one month to go? Dumbass. If you want me to yell at you over the phone pm me your number and I'll feed you ---- til it motivates you.

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you killed a 6 pack... thats weaksauce ::)

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another question
is what crime are you being convicted on
second does she even bother about you if she has feelings fo you she would call you or something plus you in senior man finish it and get the ---- out of high school go to your mom dad or someone to help you out get a new friend from them clases to help you out with the homework just dont tlk to that bitch and if she calls you or anything (not asking for a favor but for you two to go out or something) the shes worth it but if she doesnt ---- her.