RotaryGeek

so she is pregnant. the shock is still setting in on me, but its true. we have only been dating ten months and she is pregnant. i dont know how to feel. i mean im happy that im going to be a daddy, but im worried about the financial end of it. i have debt that i have been trying to get organized and taked care of and i only make about 1500 a month after tax. i know this will go up once i have a dependant, and if we get married anytime soon. she told me she doesnt want to get married just becuase she is pregnant, but becuase i want to. i love this girl and i wont be the dead beat dad and i wont even think about an abortion on my kid. im scared as hell though. i dont know what to do, and i feel sick. im pretty sure thats just my nerves. my dad i guess was kinda expexting it, but my mom was really hard to tell. i cried the entire two minute phone call. i cant even get my own ---- straight, much less my girls and a babies. i dont know what to do. well i do know what to do, im just scared/ nerveous about it.

Guy-Fast

I had alot of friends who had to get part time gigs on top of what they were doing or get overtime. Both are hard in this economy. Side work/collect cans.

HondaTuner

Regardless of everything good luck to ya man, hope you get your ---- straight.

Guy-Fast

Also cutting down on expenses is a plus if you can. Im a dumpster diving -----. All my furniture is from either salvation army or behind furniture stores at their dumpsters. Picked up 2 nice chairs about a week ago that just needed a couple screws fixed. I get all my packing stuff from there the plastic they wrap furniture with works great to pack motors etc. Most women will say its ghetto to have trash in their home but if money is tight thinking that way will keep you out of major debt.

MikeJ-2009

haha, the jokes on you jack. She stopped taking her pills because she's tired of waiting for you to marry her. The child seals the deal, and you're not in control of any of this anyhow, so just relax and ---- that ---- crazy for the next 8 months.


(oh, then leave her)

buk9tp

think of your kid as a savings account that you dump money into and eventually when he/she gets older ittl pay off

RotaryGeek

yeah thanks. i have to really buckle down now and take care of my ----. im so nervous though. this is my first kid (even that seems so wierd today) and i know i make a lot more than a lot of people my age with kids, and my girl works too. i just never thought this would happen so soon. i thought about 3 years down the line would be a good time.

buk9tp

someone needs to post up that pregnancy abortion skit
pretty sure ittd make u feel better

buk9tp

http://youtube.com/watch?v=KjW4i67YC04

MikeJ-2009

This would be a good plan if you were the one responsible for taking the pills. Unfortunately, the person with this responsibility wants to be married in 6 months. The end.