How come I can't stop getting angry over bullshit? **PORN**
 

This thread is gayer than AIDs without porn so porn is included.

I'm at work today. I cook at a golf club on the course. Anyway, the GM comes down today at the end of a relatively slow day. End of the story he gets some food from me, I go get a new propane tank, I come back and he walks up to me and says "I know its not your job but can you pick the weeds around the patio." I'm thinking, "I'll just agree, pick two while he is here and then stop." so I say "Okay". I pick one, and I just become over come with rage. The ---- if people come to my station while I have 16 people waiting for food and help me do my job, so why the ---- should I do the work of the maintenance workers? We have 20-30 workers that are supposed to maintain the facility. I cook food and take care of the customers in my station. I shouldn't be weeding the patio while I have various members I serve on a regular basis walk by. I closed my station and left. I wish I had the ability to let that slide, but ----, I can't help myself.

Would I have been wrong to tell the guy "no" from the beginning?

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Re: How come I can't stop getting angry over bullshit? **PORN**
 

If he's the GM, then I wouldn't say no. He could fire you in a second. Sometimes you gotta work extra, be it putting in overtime or finishing other people's jobs.

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you should explain to him that no one helps you do your job when you're in the weeds

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I put the second most amount of overtime in the company(salary'd employees not included), never called out the whole summer, and already pick up everyones extra work in the station. My job at time requires one to do a lot of work. I can serve 150-200 sandwiches in a day. That doesn't include all the prep work necessary to make said sandwiches along with the sides. I do this about 98% by myself. Days like this require working 14 hours. I'm not saying I'm there 14 hours, I'm working 14 hours with maybe a 30 minute break at 5PM. Forget about taking food breaks. Thats in 90+ degree weather next to a hot grill. It's a thankless job, but also one of the jobs that is the most profitable for the company. I do more than my fair share. He just only comes down on slow days when he is bored sitting in his office doing a lot of nothing. The fact of the matter is, it's his job to make sure the facility is taken care of. He has a maintenance department to take care of such things. They didn't do their job adequately. Now it's my job to fix their mistakes? When those guys stop coming in groups of 10 at 12PM when I have groups of golfers coming for lunch at the same time thus making my job near impossible, I'll pull their weeds.

As for him just firing me. We have a nice HR rep that I'd gladly call on in said situation. I'd also be a blessing in disguise as well because then I'm guaranteed unemployment.

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You agreed to work there for a given amount per hour. Basically, anything and everything you can accomplish during your time on the clock is your job. He might be a prick, but I don't know anyone who stands out as a right hand man who's ever said "that's not my job".

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you should take a gun to work and shoot him. you can get away with it come on do it :y

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Okay, so why didn't he pick up the weeds? People don't do stuff every day because its not their job. What you are saying is quite a load. My job is to cook the food, serve the food, take the orders, and clean up after myself. I need to do anything else that allows me to do said things.

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=define%3A+job

Basically confirms my understanding of a job....If they wanted to hire me to do whatever the ----, they shouldn't have placed me in the Food and Beverage dept as a cook and given me a chef jacket to wear.

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Cause he's probably a lazy ----, but being the boss, he can do that.

You can choose to not pick the weeds, but as soon as someone comes along and does what's asked of them (a.k.a. someone who really wants the job), they're going to have your job, and you're going to deserve unemployment.

Yeah, some bosses are complete assholes and there's ---- they say that you don't want to do, but throwing google in his face and telling him it's not your job isn't gonna go very far. I don't know, find a job you want to do.

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You really are a hypocrite. You say this but stand strongly against Mexican workers who do exactly this. The fact of the matter is, everyone has their limits. If he wants to fire me because I won't weed, then that's his choice. Whether it will hold up according to his bosses rules (we are owned by a bigger golf management company) is a completely different story.

Either way, this thread is supposed to be about why I couldn't just tell the guy "Okay, I'll do it" and just pretend to do it. Then not do it and not get pissed about it. Why did I have to get pissed off? Completely ridiculous why I got so pissed off.

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Did you know the word "patio" is actually spanish?

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Fixed it for you.

So, let me see if I get this straight. You've set yourself up as a good-two-shoes type who has no life of his own, allowing him to work all the time, who lacks the backbone to say no to extra shifts even if he doesn't want them. Seriously. People like you get worked into the ground and never get any respect. You pop attitude and you'll just get fired. Nobody likes you there and the only reason they kept you on this long is that you're a chump and you clean a good toilet.


Now, reread all of that without your ego. Reread it a third time with your sense of humor. You've got a ---- job, why lose sleep over being asked to do ---- work? Get a little more Zen about ----, stop carrying a ---- job home with you at the end of the day, and look forward to doing a little better with future employment.

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Look, I'm not the fucken sandwich maker here. There's nothing wrong with Mexican workers, as long as they're supposed to be here. Taking a shitty job like yours in the American free market and opening it up to people from the 3rd world isn't a free market, it's you never having a chance to have the shitty job that you complain about today.

If you don't like your job, quit. Nobody cares if you get pissed off at a guy who owns you and told you to do something. Go get pissed off in the unemployment line. HMT can't help you.

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Personally, i have found that going out of my way and doing things outside of my job description and doing them well have always brought me things like advancement opportunities and pay increases, this is usually caused by giving my boss the impression that i am motivated and get things done, rather than being anouther person that just shows up and collects a paycheck.

Then again thats just me, but as said above you have a ---- job and it doesn't really matter, but i think you should just tell your boss whats on your mind.

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Go see a doctor, a therapist, psychologist....whichever one treats this kind of thing.

They'll either:

A.) Give you cool medication
B.) Send you to anger management classes
C.) Laugh at you

Or....all of the above.

My suggestion, however, is to go back to school and get a degree so that you're not doing bitch work like this all the time. Think about it, your pay/salary will be a lot higher with a degree, and any intelligent employer will not want to put you on bitch work that somebody with lower pay could handle. Or...you could get a business management degree and take your boss' job, or maybe even his boss' job and tell him to go outside and pull some weeds.

In fact I bet that's exactly what happened, his boss said bitch go pull weeds and he wasn't trying to hear that so he got your ass to do it.

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I put in my 2 weeks notice a couple days ago at my job.. Tonight the boss asked me to "scrub the sidewalk with a sponge" Because some of the trashcan ---- leaked on to it.. I looked at him and said "On my hands and knees? You're ------- retarded."

Still got a job too. :6

Re: How come I can't stop getting angry over bullshit? **PORN**
 

Being a GM is way more stressful than it seems like. He's just trying to work with what he has to make everything run smoothly.

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I would Simply give him a little winkle "eh......" face , then say " I guess...." :1

Calm yourself down by stop asking "why"...once you start asking then all sort of bull ---- happens. Theres really nothing to lose as long as it does not happend everyday. Think about how life is too short to be angry over useless/meaning less ----/people and everything will be much easier and you will live much much happier.

Of course there ARE times that you have to stand up for yourself, but you gotta look at the entire picture and see if it is worth the risk or not....... be your own judge (Judy) lol

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I have to disagree with this. The top 10 of my high school class have served me my after work cocktails for the entire summer. ---- them. B students manage A students. All day everyday. The better well rounded person who has more people skills and can carry a conversation with Helen Keller will get paid more, bottom line.

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Oh yeah. Don't get mad, get even. Your wasting your energy by getting mad.

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You okay ---- cake?

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I didn't say anything about the kind of grades you get, all I said is get a degree. If you're going to argue that it's not worth one's time to get a degree....that's just ridiculous. Not all A students are poorly rounded people with poor people skills that can't carry on a conversation. People skills and all that jazz are important, but you'll have a hard time getting employers to even call you back if all you have to put on your resume is "well I've got good people skills and I can carry on a conversation with Helen Keller."

I was giving this guy the benefit of the doubt by assuming he wasn't a total retard who doesn't know how to communicate (think Milton from Office Space).

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I was going to type something but I don't care enough.

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what the ---- is up with those last pictures

that is fucked up. i didn't need to see that

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All hard work brings profit...

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college ain't ----.
-G.E.D. holder >:D

Re: How come I can't stop getting angry over bullshit? **PORN**
 

Keep talking...

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University is worthwhile even if you don't need it to land you a job.

Re: How come I can't stop getting angry over bullshit? **PORN**
 

You just answered your own question in your own thread...well sorta.

Maybe you are being the hypocrite. Do you care or dont you? Obviously you do care, thats why you let yourself get worked up over the matter. If you didnt care...you wouldnt give two shits.

But not only do you care about the situation with your boss, you for some reason care about the advice some assholes on the internet are trying to give you.

Stop caring...or find a job you dont care about.

There's my 2:30am ramblings...

BTW, whats a person with your intelligence (seemingly) doing as a cook?

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I think it's nice to be served burgers from the "model students" who were expected to go far in life. :6 Yes, I would like fries with that.

Report back in 10 years with your last 10 W2 forms. We'll compare numbers. I've been thinking about getting a GED, but if I really don't have to...what's the point? ???
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Re: How come I can't stop getting angry over bullshit? **PORN**
 

My solution...

Relax, it's just a job. :y

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I agree getting an education has helped me pretty much in every part of my life...I started a job about two months ago and Ive already went from being just a sales man to being in managment.
I know if I hadn't gone to school I wouldn't be able to do the things that are moving me forward.

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Just curious, what does this "management" job pay that requires a college education?
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Honestly I haven't got my raise yet so I don't know for sure. The owner is really fair though so I think it's going to be pretty good..I work at a you pull yard my job is to write up all the cars we buy and decide what engines and things we pull and put on the shelf in the warehouse and what we send into the yard, I handle our online everdrive sales and I manage the inventory in the warehouse I make sure everything is where it's supposed to be.

It's the funnest job Ive ever had hands down and the people are cool.
The guy that has my job at our other location is a baller so I'm sure I'll be alright. And if they don't pay well :1 It'll be back to construction pouring concrete for $23 an hour and a wasted student loan payment for nothing.

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Do you think you'll be making more than $23/hour? If it's really the funnest job you've ever had, than more power to you. I would take a major pay cut to work a job I TRUELY didn't mind getting up everyday for.
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Re: How come I can't stop getting angry over bullshit? **PORN**
 

I'm not sure what it will be to be. if I can get somewhere close to that then I'll be happy...But I feel the same as you I'm staying where I am unless something drastic happens...My knees kill me from finshing concrete since I was sixteen and going back to that would be the very last option....

I may even take up flipping burgers and pulling weeds at the golf coarse. :6 sweet success!! oh yeah.

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I'm not in a liberal arts curriculum, Doc. Starting wage is in the 50-60K range depending on how keen I am about relocation.

Also, I'm a full time college student with two part time jobs, one of which I schedule myself at only when I feel like working, in a city with a high cost of living vs low average wage. I've got over a grand in my back pocket, Doc, and last I checked you were financed out to the point your bills ate up every dime you made. I have the ability to drop everything at a moments notice and do what the ---- I want, whereas you're trapped swinging hammers. As for your future... many guys on the construction site over 50? Keep talking...

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Exactly In the laborers union I was in you have to work 30 years to retire. Not many guys that can make it that long. The really sweet thing they had setup was a points system based on hours worked during a year so you could earn 1 point towards retirement. if you fell short on hours one year if things were slow you'd have to work two years to earn a year....so it could work out to sixty years of hard labor. SOunds like a great life.