Re: fuck up last night.. relationship shit
 

You're fucked. If you don't tell her, she'll find out and dump you. If you tell her, she'll dump you. Nice work. :-\ :3

Re: fuck up last night.. relationship shit
 

since you said this i would tell her before she finds out from someone else....no matter what its not gonna be fun....be a man and stand up for the fucked up ---- you did and hopefully you can salvage your relationship...thats if you want it even

Re: fuck up last night.. relationship shit
 

sry dude

Re: fuck up last night.. relationship shit
 

Just dont say a damn thing and dont worry about it, seriously, when is it ever going to come up? You're over thinking it.

Re: fuck up last night.. relationship shit
 

don't tell her.

and if she finds out from someone. be like, "that bitch was drunk as ----, she was all over (person's name she doesn't know)"

Re: fuck up last night.. relationship shit
 

tell her you went to the party had a ok time met a pretty cool chick named amanda thats all. She will probably be mad but not leave your ass mad then if she heres anything else denie everything pretent like she(amanda) is crazy, just down play this ----. DONT ---- UP AGAIN IF YOU ACUALLY LIKE YOUR J/F!

Re: fuck up last night.. relationship shit
 

Dont tell her, Deny EVERYTHING. You better start sucking up to your G/F in case she does find out.

Re: fuck up last night.. relationship shit
 

thanks for all of the advice guys. See, the thing is. My g/f now lives here part time and goes to school.. i pay all of the bills.. i doa ll of the cleaning.. I have to do it all.. she does nothing to contribute.. so that was a factor that played in last night.. iw as just like i dont give a ----. Now I understand she goes to school and such, but she should get a part time job and at least pay like utilities. I think i'm gonna hang low for a while and try to get out of the relationship before she finds out I cheated on her.

Re: fuck up last night.. relationship shit
 

Let me put some basic Tom Lykis action on this...

- If you are younger than 26 years old, you should not be in a "relationship" of any kind. A year and a half is a long term relationship. Assuming that you are under 26, you should be out there experiencing every girl you can, not locking yourself into a long term relationship.

That said, if you are grinding and cuddling with this other chick, that should be a good indicator to you that you are not getting what you need from your current situation. No matter how guilty you might feel, you still saw it, wanted it, and did it, so obviously you are not completely happy with what you have. It might feel "comfortable" and you might care about your girlfriend, but you have to be honest with yourself, figure out what you really want, and then move forward.

I'm not saying that you should confess to your current girl, as that will cause a lot of hurt and drama. Just figure out what you want, and cut her loose if she doesn't fit into your desires.

Craig

Re: fuck up last night.. relationship shit
 

yeah, i'm 21 my g/f is 20.. and this amanda chick i was makin out with was 26. I feel too young to be settling down with just one girl. My g/f hasn't given me any in like 3 months . i dont know wtf is wrong with her she like has no sexual desires at all.. and i brought it up to her.. she got pissed and is like.f ine we'll ---- every night.. now i dont want her to do it if she doesn't really want it.. What I really want, is someone who wants to express their feelings in a loving way and in a sexual way.. I'm definatley debating on telling my g/f that when she goes to college this week to her apartment.. not to come back.