Debate I have with myself......
 

Well I have been at my present job for a year now, I had to do six months of training and the place I work for paid for it. I had to move from PA to VA to take this job, I left my family, friends and girlfriend in PA. I have found a few things here in the past year.
-I like my job here in VA.
-Cost of housing is crazy and I will never be able to afford a house with my career choice
-I really do love my girlfriend and I miss her and want to move our relationship forward, but that means I have to move back to PA.
-I could afford a house in PA in a year.
-I am miserbale in VA, not too much I have found to do, all I do it think about being back home in PA.

So, I could go back to PA with my training and experience from this job and a new one, be with my g/f, get a house in a year, be much happier. I have been thinking lately that there is no point in me being somehwere where i am not happy at all. I have fun at my job, but that is only 9 hours a day....Basically I have made up my mind...I guess.....not sure why I posted this, looking for insight I guess..and bored.

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Well do what I do when faced with a tough desision. I buy a magic 8-ball, ask it a question, shake it, turn it upside down than smash the moutherfucker! Seriously, do what make syou happy, life sucks when you are down all the time!

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i say ditch your career and become a gay porn star, i bet the money's great. :6

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VA blows dude, where do you live within this great shithole of ours? Get out before the laws get worst

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go back home. you gotta do what makes you happy

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Just go home mang. Are you too good for your home??? Get a cheap apartment or something, why wait a year...

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seams like you made up your mind already just looking for reassurance MOVE BACK HOME

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I am going home to talk to a few people that offered me jobs, looking to put in my notice when i get back. I live in Chesterfield now right outside of richmond, there aint ---- to do here.......I am going to do what makes me happy, back to PA.

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Might as well come back here (PA that is) if it's that shitty in VA. I can't honestly stand PA as a whole, but it has it's good points and the housing is pretty cheap. Downside, the job market up here is also just as cheap unless you work for a large corporation or have a federal job. :P

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Juts go home, nothings more important then being happy of what you are doing.

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Now and than HMT comes through with solid advice...

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A job isn't worth it if all the people you can share your happiness with aren't around. GTFH nog

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Just do what is going to make you happy man. Even if the job in PA doesn't pay as well, hard to put a price on happiness :l

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^ Exactly, everyone tries to leave PA but always misses it in the end :P Move back home, bro.

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That and the Comm(unist)enwealth of Virginia is the shittiest place west of California for people who like to go fast with fun cars...

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I second that.

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well first of all, DO Not Make your decisions based on your girlfriend. She may not be around in a few years, then yoll be regretting leaving a wel paying job. do what makes you happy, but dont base it on other people. i would say stay whereever youll make more money.make them come to you. if you stay "home" where your in your comfort zone, youll never grow up.

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quality of life is always the number one priority nigga. unless you can convince her to move out there.

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she better swollow and let you put it in her ------- for it to be enough to move back to any chick. AT A MINIMUM.

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newbie speaks the truth

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cant believe why no one asked yet, but what do you do for a job that makes you love it so much, ive had a few fun jobs but they usually didnt pay much or the fun didnt last that long, so im just wondering, im with renr dont move back just because of your girlfriend, because you never know what might happen with that. if your not really making more money becuase of living then thats a good reason to move back, that and not having friends and family.