Debate I have with myself......
07-08-2007, 04:33 PM
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Debate I have with myself......
Well I have been at my present job for a year now, I had to do six months of training and the place I work for paid for it. I had to move from PA to VA to take this job, I left my family, friends and girlfriend in PA. I have found a few things here in the past year.
-I like my job here in VA.
-Cost of housing is crazy and I will never be able to afford a house with my career choice
-I really do love my girlfriend and I miss her and want to move our relationship forward, but that means I have to move back to PA.
-I could afford a house in PA in a year.
-I am miserbale in VA, not too much I have found to do, all I do it think about being back home in PA.
So, I could go back to PA with my training and experience from this job and a new one, be with my g/f, get a house in a year, be much happier. I have been thinking lately that there is no point in me being somehwere where i am not happy at all. I have fun at my job, but that is only 9 hours a day....Basically I have made up my mind...I guess.....not sure why I posted this, looking for insight I guess..and bored.
-I like my job here in VA.
-Cost of housing is crazy and I will never be able to afford a house with my career choice
-I really do love my girlfriend and I miss her and want to move our relationship forward, but that means I have to move back to PA.
-I could afford a house in PA in a year.
-I am miserbale in VA, not too much I have found to do, all I do it think about being back home in PA.
So, I could go back to PA with my training and experience from this job and a new one, be with my g/f, get a house in a year, be much happier. I have been thinking lately that there is no point in me being somehwere where i am not happy at all. I have fun at my job, but that is only 9 hours a day....Basically I have made up my mind...I guess.....not sure why I posted this, looking for insight I guess..and bored.
07-08-2007, 04:47 PM
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Re: Debate I have with myself......
Well do what I do when faced with a tough desision. I buy a magic 8-ball, ask it a question, shake it, turn it upside down than smash the moutherfucker! Seriously, do what make syou happy, life sucks when you are down all the time!
Get a cheap apartment or something, why wait a year...
07-08-2007, 05:27 PM
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Re: Debate I have with myself......
Originally Posted by Atticus
MOVE BACK HOME
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07-08-2007, 05:29 PM
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Re: Debate I have with myself......
I am going home to talk to a few people that offered me jobs, looking to put in my notice when i get back. I live in Chesterfield now right outside of richmond, there aint ---- to do here.......I am going to do what makes me happy, back to PA.
07-08-2007, 06:01 PM
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Re: Debate I have with myself......
Might as well come back here (PA that is) if it's that shitty in VA. I can't honestly stand PA as a whole, but it has it's good points and the housing is pretty cheap. Downside, the job market up here is also just as cheap unless you work for a large corporation or have a federal job. :P
