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Re:Cant decide what to do?

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Originally Posted by sccaeg

sounds like you arent ready to be fully whipped by your lady. my advice, stay on your own and live your own life. you arent even 21 yet. dont move in with each other yet. live your own life and be you for a while. you have so much to learn. trust me. when you move in, your fun life becomes you and your wifes life. so things like a LSVTEC motor becomes going out to eat and movies and such. shes gonna want your attention 100% of the time, so garage time becomes non-existant.

and you will not have more sex. trust me. anyone who lives with there girl can vouch for this (or is this just me???)

bottom line...
dont move in with her.
*im married. im not saying I dont love living with my life, but sometimes I miss the old times.

that is dead on. listen to that advice because thats as good as it gets.

Re:Cant decide what to do?

Ahhh Counsellor chacko says, "Talk it out".

Pretty big step to live with someone - if there are problems now, they're only going to get worse when you move in together. This is from my experience of just living with a kid who used to be one of my best friends; now we fight all the time.

Its not entirely the same, because well with the girl you get at least two beneficial perks *wink*. But still if you have arguments now, they're going to get worse - because there is no escape from each other when you live together.

However problems with my friend started to allieviate themselves when we both started talking about it. We agreed on how to share utilities (most of the arguments from me were because he's really lazy about keeping the house clean, and eats my food). There were also problems with laundy laying around, and other ---- that was just obnoxious. But after talking it out we devised methods of getting along, I would say our friendship isn't as strong as it used to be, but it is steadily improving.

I find myself agreeing with Dragon for once ;)

If she doesn't want to talk about it or isn't willing to make compromises then you have to become a little selfish and go with what is going to be better off for you.

Re:Cant decide what to do?

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