brax90si

I have a problem...Now my girlfriend and i were supposed to move into our own apartment on july 12th over in tampa, we havent signed the lease papers yet..Now my girlfriend is getting my nerves and i dont live with her yet, we have been dating for 2 years..I have been thinking about calling this move off, but my girlfriend is going to usf and will need a place to stay, we live about 40 miles from usf right now...On the other hand i have just spoken with a friend whose grandmother just died and her house has 3 bedrooms and 2 car garage, anyways his mother owns the house and will let us live in for free, all we have to pay is the utilities..that means about 1500 dollars amonth for me and building my built ls/vtec turbo...but i dont want make the girl sad, i love her but i dont feel as though i am ready for moving in together yet? anyone ever had to make this decision, and anyone ever lived with girlfriend and it got bad? thanx for all ur input.


-Braxton

88crxSi

my girlfriend and I just moved in together in april. been going out for 2 years prior. Everything for us is peachy.

Where's the "house" located.. maybe you should just both live there and commute, its not that far. 30 min drive?

dragon

thats easy live in the house and just pay the utilities. Just talk to her man and tell her what you just said here. explain you dont want to hurt her just your not ready to move in together yet. she shold understand. when your ready you two can just get up and leave and not worry about a contract while living in the house.

Breaker84

First of all how old are you? my legal address is actually still at my parents house but I practically moved in with my girl and I'm 20, I've been living with her for about a year and I moved in 6 months into our relationship, yeah not a good idea to do it that soon. But umm.. we have our fights. And if you like to go out and hang with the guys a lot you're gonna get tired of her ----. My girl is always asking me what time I'm gonna be home and ----. If you move in with them they think you two are married or something

brax90si

Well me and 2 other guy friends will be living in the house, and my girlfriend will probably live in dorm in tmapa, the house is in lakeland....so we cant move into the house, she wouldnt like living there with my friends and i would not either..so it appears i am going to talk with her tonight about this...hope everything goes over well if not who cares i can build that ls/vtec turbo!!

brax90si

i am 20 as well, and my girl already wants to know everything and anything i am doing and i dont even live with her, i just dont want to by whipped like a slave..

SkunT

sounds like you arent ready to be fully whipped by your lady. my advice, stay on your own and live your own life. you arent even 21 yet. dont move in with each other yet. live your own life and be you for a while. you have so much to learn. trust me. when you move in, your fun life becomes you and your wifes life. so things like a LSVTEC motor becomes going out to eat and movies and such. shes gonna want your attention 100% of the time, so garage time becomes non-existant.

and you will not have more sex. trust me. anyone who lives with there girl can vouch for this (or is this just me)

bottom line...
dont move in with her.
*im married. im not saying I dont love living with my life, but sometimes I miss the old times.

necro

Don't move in with your gf. Your not ready to move out if you think you'll be whipped . Do you have a steady job? Do you have money saved up in case of emergencies, your car, rent. If not then stay at your friends house and save your money. The same for your gf. The key is to save your money in case you lose your job you can afford to pay a few months rent until you get on your feet. That goes for her also. Just a little advise enjoy your youth you'll move in with your gf in the future.

brax90si

i do appreciate everything everyone has said they are all good points...I have a good steady job i work at geico direct i am a claims adj....But i am gonna talk with her this evening i mentioned it to her at lunch today and she started to cry and apologize for being a bitch sometimes, but i know it wont last she will be bitchy again, i love her, but i do want to have my youth and freedom...and i want her to have that as well this is going to be her first year of college, and i want her to have a good time, we are young...i have got alot of thinking to do..


-Braxton

Dr.Boost

DON'T DO IT!!!!!

lol, I would have to find a damn good girl to feel good about moving in with her. I almost made the dive once, but I think I talked her out of it by adding up expenses and explaining to her that her 20 hour per week job at $5.50 an hour isn't going to pay the bills, much less get her nails done, pay for tanning, hair, cell phone accessories, ******,...etc...etc.

RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!
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