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you know to love someone is a big goal in life. this is snatch10psi's wife and i know this isnt the place but i want everyone to know how much i love him.
we been married now for 2 yrs, we've had our ups we've had our downs been thru hell and even worse, we have 2 beautiful children together 1 boy whos 15mos and 1 girl whos 5mos and we've been sharing our life together we know everything there is to know about one another and still he decides all of a sudden not to be with me. we bought a puppy for my son for christmas and we both were tired of the apt we was livin in so we finally got a house and now he wants nothing to do with his family. damn man why are guys like that. he wants to think he's single and can do what he wants and when he wants but we are married and have 2 kids. i have those kids24/7 so he can do what he wants. while i on the other hand get to have nothing or do nothin. life is so stressed out and love is a rediculous thing to fall for. for this snatch10psi has really put a hurtin on me. there for one another thru the good and the bad and the rough times. we are those kind of ppl who just cant seem to get away from one another no matter what b/c we love each other so much at least thats what he had me believing. theres those ppl tho who love someone so much that they pine over it every nite and day and only want to be with that one person. he gave me his vowl and i have mine together forever is what was said to be. but now look he's only out to play games.

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Somebody has been drinking lol.http://www.jdmcrx.com/forums/html/emoticons/Alcy.gif

j/k :P
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Kids tend to be very stressfull in anyones life man or woman and some people just donw respond well to it. Depression can also be a big key to why he is shoving everyone out of his life. If heh as been drinking alot for no reason or is being obsorbed in games or whatever it might be time to see someone aobut it before his next step is to kill himself. Now i dont know the dinamics of your relationship nor do i really know your hubby or how he normally acts you do. it is your move next, plan it well.

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Is it possible that you put on a lot of weight or stopped taking care of yourself to the point that he's looking elsewhere?

I'm really not sure what you planned to achieve with this post though. For him to see it or for us to dislike him for these things..... I think in most of our books so long as he takes the time to turbo his car he'll be an "ok" guy :)

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Well heres the deal, Snatch10psi must not be getting any Snatch in the sack, because thats a big reason why married men tend to take off. Unless hes out banging some other chick. Sit down with your man, take down his pants and give him a good BJ and remind him of all the good times you spent together.

Or, as airtonics said.. you may have got really fat and undesireable.. Lots of the gyms have special packages this time of year. May look into that.

Jeff

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I guess I don't really have a position on this one.

A man that leaves his family is a coward.

A man that is stressed makes temporary stupid decisions.

I guess we'll see what kind of man he is in the long run. Good luck.

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we could offer better advice if you post a pic. did you put on weight? i kno wwhen my ex went to college and gained some weight i found her unatteactive and proptly turned her in for the turbo model.. and yeah. bj all the way. it has some strange positive effect on guys. not sex....bj

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soo true

Beau

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My advice is to try to work it out using some marriage counselor or someone both of you trust dearly.

We on this board are in no position to make any decision for you or steer you in any direction. If you do listen to anyone of us, I'd second the bj, but other than that...

I wish you the best of luck in your life, with your marriage, and with your two beautiful children.

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Some guys are dicks so deal with it. Girls are worse though if ya ask me.

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Guys are assholes and Girls are bitches...

Its life... Learn it, Appreciate it, ---- it! =)

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wow jeff that was pretty blunt.

to snatch10psi's wife.... you should pee on him in bed and then you will really know how much he loves you.


btw I hate girl. the one that I was with for 4 years and now she is out in the night clubs ------- OTHER ------ GUYS!!!!!! GODDDDDAAAAAMMMMMMMMMMNNNNNNNTTTTTT!!!! KILLL KILLL KILLLL GGRRRRRRR.

sorry.

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don't worry about it, you've been together 2 years, if anything bad was gonna happen it either has been happening for a long time, or would have already happened and is not going to.

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love is bullshit. Every time i thought i was in love it was immediately followed buy painful heartache. accidents do happen though.

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well, snatch's wife, i myself am onlyl 22 and have a 10 month old daughter and have been married for two years, and yes, it is VERY stressful! i have a good job and make good money and am broke due to the fact that i have to take care of my wife and child, while all of my other friends that are single get to buy boats and motorcycles and whatever other toys they want. i think about how my life could be without my wife everyday (just my wife, not my daughter ;) ), and sometimes think i would be happier running around getting strange everynight, well, the truth is, i prolly would be happier, so nevermind :P he'll prolly come back, he's just stressed and needs some time away, as long as he is still financially taking care of you and the kids while he is gone, i wouldn't worry too much, and just make sure he scrubs his balls good before you put them in your mouth, there's a lot of dirty sluts out there these days.......

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You make it sound as if the kids werent planned.It sounds like you got married couse of the kids.So basically he was somewhere he didnt want to be.

Im not on his side.He is a cowerd.But when a child is conceived unexpected,now your forced to live with one another or at least expected to.People should be responsible and think about the kids.Not themselves.

Sorry to hear about your situation.

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??? this is a weird post I'd have to go with Jeff on this one but if hes cheating kick him to the curb

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I'd have to go with Jeff(AbaZ) on this one.
Or if snatchy is reading this...at least take care of your kids. But wifey it's up to you......If you really want him to stay talk to him and what i stated at the first sentance

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Yeah this post is pretty weird and how the hell did you get his password for HMT anyways? If I had a wife I would beat her for posting with my name on HMT... j/k ;)

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Two words: password protection ;)

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aw, come on guys, she sounds really hurt and prolly doesn't have anyone to talk to, it prolly made her feel better at the time just to blow off some steam and what not, she prolly turned on the puter and put it on hmt and he was already logged in and she just thought about him and cried and wanted to talk to someone :-\

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Someones going to be in trouble when he reads this post

little tip for snatch's wife- if you see your husband going for the computer find a helmet and put it on ;)

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where you located wifey? i'll come cumfort you, i'll even find a babysitter for the night and take you out and let you have a good time :)

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If he doesn't want her why would you? I'd assume she became undesireable just like most women do after marriage.

True a man who leaves his family is a coward I completly agree.... but what about women who think they can just say "---- it" he said the vows now i can look like a damn cow if i want...

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not necessarily, my wife is hot and i do dumb ---- and want to leave her sometimes..........

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Good point.... I suppose we all look elsewhere sometimes even if we have no intentions of following through with our asperations.

Regardless you have not seen a pic yet so I woudlnt offer her a good time. Considering most of the girls in chat...lol they say one thing and look completly different.

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anythning to help a hurting female :-[

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<<<<<<<yeah most probably really look like this guy

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woooooooot, wooooooot......... ;D

that dude looks exactly like a bum i use to see in fl, we called him "blanding bob" b/c he walked up and down blanding blvd. all day........

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It is him.
I got his mug shot off hillsborough county sherriffs office site here in tampa i got a bunch of fucked up looking mugshots in my computer

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are you ------- serious? that's too damn crazy, i'm talking about near jacksonville fl thoug, orange park, kind of far to tampa for a bum.....

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customcoach's wifey poo rene' has his login

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Completly different situations... She posts for him because he doesnt have the time. She is also part of the business.

Anyways..... no one has come back to this, so either we scared her off or her husband took care of the situation.

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That's real personal business. Posting on this site might just upset him more.

Talk to him. He's the only one with the answer that you're looking for.

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sorry to bring this up,just tryna give some future advice to some people. but its been 2 years or so since my wife posted that and well..its not good we are now going through a divorce :( i love all 3 of them to death but i made alot of stupid choices in my life and i lost my family for them (real men admit when they are wrong like i just did) it is true that you dont know what you have to you lose it sorry to just bust out and say it but hey i needed to vent a lil... and i dont really get on the forum no more cause i sold my honda like a year ago and now i got a 240sx :) so if anyone has anything to say good or bad say it please its not all my fault but then it is so i deserve to be flammed for it so.........

- sorry for the sobby ----..

Bud

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wtf, snatch accidentally leave his computer in the kitchen again? :-*

theres only 4 things you need to keep a man happy

suck his dick
play with his balls
make him a sandwich
dont talk so much

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this post sucks without pics of ur ex wifes tits

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pics would be nice to bad i dont have none ::) btw hotrex what happened with that ecu i dont care no more ---- i dont even have a honda just wondering if ya really did send it out or what

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BAHHHHH....sorry had to laugh at that.

Its funny how people dont think about the choices they make until later. But I guess this is how we learn and grow up.