beyond love****remember this post?***
 

you know to love someone is a big goal in life. this is snatch10psi's wife and i know this isnt the place but i want everyone to know how much i love him.
we been married now for 2 yrs, we've had our ups we've had our downs been thru hell and even worse, we have 2 beautiful children together 1 boy whos 15mos and 1 girl whos 5mos and we've been sharing our life together we know everything there is to know about one another and still he decides all of a sudden not to be with me. we bought a puppy for my son for christmas and we both were tired of the apt we was livin in so we finally got a house and now he wants nothing to do with his family. damn man why are guys like that. he wants to think he's single and can do what he wants and when he wants but we are married and have 2 kids. i have those kids24/7 so he can do what he wants. while i on the other hand get to have nothing or do nothin. life is so stressed out and love is a rediculous thing to fall for. for this snatch10psi has really put a hurtin on me. there for one another thru the good and the bad and the rough times. we are those kind of ppl who just cant seem to get away from one another no matter what b/c we love each other so much at least thats what he had me believing. theres those ppl tho who love someone so much that they pine over it every nite and day and only want to be with that one person. he gave me his vowl and i have mine together forever is what was said to be. but now look he's only out to play games.

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Somebody has been drinking lol.http://www.jdmcrx.com/forums/html/emoticons/Alcy.gif

j/k :P
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Re:beyond love
 

Kids tend to be very stressfull in anyones life man or woman and some people just donw respond well to it. Depression can also be a big key to why he is shoving everyone out of his life. If heh as been drinking alot for no reason or is being obsorbed in games or whatever it might be time to see someone aobut it before his next step is to kill himself. Now i dont know the dinamics of your relationship nor do i really know your hubby or how he normally acts you do. it is your move next, plan it well.

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Is it possible that you put on a lot of weight or stopped taking care of yourself to the point that he's looking elsewhere?

I'm really not sure what you planned to achieve with this post though. For him to see it or for us to dislike him for these things..... I think in most of our books so long as he takes the time to turbo his car he'll be an "ok" guy :)

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Well heres the deal, Snatch10psi must not be getting any Snatch in the sack, because thats a big reason why married men tend to take off. Unless hes out banging some other chick. Sit down with your man, take down his pants and give him a good BJ and remind him of all the good times you spent together.

Or, as airtonics said.. you may have got really fat and undesireable.. Lots of the gyms have special packages this time of year. May look into that.

Jeff

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I guess I don't really have a position on this one.

A man that leaves his family is a coward.

A man that is stressed makes temporary stupid decisions.

I guess we'll see what kind of man he is in the long run. Good luck.

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we could offer better advice if you post a pic. did you put on weight? i kno wwhen my ex went to college and gained some weight i found her unatteactive and proptly turned her in for the turbo model.. and yeah. bj all the way. it has some strange positive effect on guys. not sex....bj

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soo true

Beau

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My advice is to try to work it out using some marriage counselor or someone both of you trust dearly.

We on this board are in no position to make any decision for you or steer you in any direction. If you do listen to anyone of us, I'd second the bj, but other than that...

I wish you the best of luck in your life, with your marriage, and with your two beautiful children.

Re:beyond love
 

Some guys are dicks so deal with it. Girls are worse though if ya ask me.