So my family life is not going so well... couple of days ago my wife told me that she needs some "space" WTF? anyways she saing that she isn't talking about divorce but she wants to get separated for some time... whatever that means. Anyways i am sick and tired of all this B.S., and she's talking about how we are not right for eachother and all, but i love her to death and we have a 15 month old son together that i love more then anything. And i am not sure what's going to happed yet but if we are going to split up I don't realy care what happens to me then. So I've been thinking that maybe i should just join the military and hope that i'll get sent to Iraq so my *** would get blown away, because at this point I am starting not to give a ---- anymore.....................

i got a couple of cars and a house and at this point i think that i am just going to leave everything as it is and just pack my bag and leave

 

i hope your just joking. not that there is anything wrong with the military (im in the navy) but you will regret it if you don't think it through first. If you leave with a bunch of problems they will still be there when you return, they won't go anywhere trust me.
my .02

 

Who said i'm going to return

 

im with this guy. military is great but with problems at home, they are gonna be there when you get back.

 

watch your finances. im sorry your wife is doing that, but you got to look out for you and your kid. kid being first priority.

 

You can't leave us now your at 830 post's. J/k ya, your kid is the number one priority in yur life. I'm thinking about going into the coast guard in december. But im only 18 and I would only be leaving behind my friends and family. Think about it bro before anything. Best of luck on your decision.

 

you dont want to leave your kid fatherless if the only reason you're going to join the military is in hopes of gettin "blown away", think it over bro

 

keep ya head up. things always get better. (then you look back and say, what the ---- was I thinking wanting to get 'blown up')

 

Not that I'm ever in much of struggles with the wife, but when it's just me and the kid, I usually take him to the play place at Mcdonalds or to a park to walk around.


You need to get away for a little bit to let your head clear, but getting away can't include your son. Take him to Mcdonalds for a couple hours and don't think about the problems.

 

Yeah i know what you're saing... but in the end that doesn't make the problem go away.