women are cunts sometimes....
09-02-2006, 03:35 PM
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women are ***** sometimes....
Ok so before you read on let me tell you i didnt want to post about my personal problems but hen again i need some advice.
So me and the wife have been apart since around june. I finally had it with all the BS and i just didn't want to be with her anymore. We spoke about child support money and i said no problem. Its not alot and its the least i can do for my son.
Now, just because i dont want to return to the shitty relationship i had does it mean i dont want to be a part of my sons life and be a good father to him. What gets me is that she will be in shitty moods for a week or so and ill be so upset that when i see her ( when i pick up pr drop pff my son ) i want to puke in her face.Nowshetext msgs me asking me if i miss her and then tells me im turingin my back on them and tells me she is going to tell my son that i died and that i need not to come by and see h im. WTF
thats not right! what the ---- does me not wanting to be with her have anything to do with a relationship between my son and i? I think maybe she is just pissed cause i wont give our marriage another chance. Really though i dont want to and im done. I want to move on and make the best of my life.
She cant decide wehter or not i get to see my son right? What do i do? Im so freaking depressed. It sucks!
So me and the wife have been apart since around june. I finally had it with all the BS and i just didn't want to be with her anymore. We spoke about child support money and i said no problem. Its not alot and its the least i can do for my son.
Now, just because i dont want to return to the shitty relationship i had does it mean i dont want to be a part of my sons life and be a good father to him. What gets me is that she will be in shitty moods for a week or so and ill be so upset that when i see her ( when i pick up pr drop pff my son ) i want to puke in her face.Nowshetext msgs me asking me if i miss her and then tells me im turingin my back on them and tells me she is going to tell my son that i died and that i need not to come by and see h im. WTF
thats not right! what the ---- does me not wanting to be with her have anything to do with a relationship between my son and i? I think maybe she is just pissed cause i wont give our marriage another chance. Really though i dont want to and im done. I want to move on and make the best of my life. She cant decide wehter or not i get to see my son right? What do i do? Im so freaking depressed. It sucks!
09-02-2006, 03:43 PM
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Re: women are ***** sometimes....
You think the court is going to allow her to not let you see your son? Hell no. She sounds pretty crazy threatening to tell your son you died. Nobody here can give you advice as far as the relationship since most of us don't know your wife or anything about the relationship, but do what you think is best.
btw, women are ***** in general, you can remove the "sometimes"
btw, women are ***** in general, you can remove the "sometimes"
09-02-2006, 03:47 PM
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Re: women are ***** sometimes....
Originally Posted by Jorsher
You think the court is going to allow her to not let you see your son? Hell no. She sounds pretty crazy threatening to tell your son you died. Nobody here can give you advice as far as the relationship since most of us don't know your wife or anything about the relationship, but do what you think is best.
btw, women are ***** in general, you can remove the "sometimes"
btw, women are ***** in general, you can remove the "sometimes"
i just hate courts....
09-02-2006, 03:49 PM
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It seems like she's just using your son as a way to guilt you into giving the relationship another shot... however, it wouldn't work since it would be illegal to keep you away from your son. Try to talk some sense into her... (I've tried, doesn't always work).
09-02-2006, 03:54 PM
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Much as you seem to dislike the courts if she does continue to that much of a bitch about your relationship to your son it may be the best option. Also, if she is more concerned about getting back at you than her son having his father in his life then she isn't all that good of a mother. Sit her bitch *** down and explain that you're through with her, will be seeing your son and be staying in his life, and if she doesn't like it she can take it up in court.
09-02-2006, 03:59 PM
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julio,
i can totally relate man. i'm in the same ----, but i just got off my relationship last night. women are nuts, i had to call the cops on her last night cause she was hitting me. she's been abusive for months in our relationship and i finally had the ***** (or no *****) to call the fuzz. and by the way she hits me in front of our son! i'm at the 7th time she's moved out and it will be the last. dont get me wrong, it kinda hurts when she hits me, matter of fact vision gets a little blurry if she gives me a blow to the temple, but it's not enough to make a grown man cry...but it's the principle. i've had to go as far as setting up a hidden camera in our apartment just in case she would hit me again...and she did. and i got it on tape. last night we fought and she started hitting me in the head...then she took my keys and atm cards...and as i was approaching her to get my ---- back...she falls on the floor and starts screaming like it was a scary movie. HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!! HAAAAAAAAAA!!!! why? to get the neighbors attention! and i didnt even hit her!!! NEVER HAVE! but in the back of my mind i knew that i would be cool cuz i have concrete evidence. as soon as she started screaming with that crazy look in her eyes, i bolted out the apartment, neighbors at attention and i told them i was calling the cops.
the last thing i would want is my son not to ever see his father...like a lot of unfortunate kids with crazy single moms.
just be glad that the mouth you were feeding wasn't biting you at dinner time. it's the worst feeling in the world to work a 12 hr shift to put dinner on the table only to be fighting once you get home to eat that dinner.
i can totally relate man. i'm in the same ----, but i just got off my relationship last night. women are nuts, i had to call the cops on her last night cause she was hitting me. she's been abusive for months in our relationship and i finally had the ***** (or no *****) to call the fuzz. and by the way she hits me in front of our son! i'm at the 7th time she's moved out and it will be the last. dont get me wrong, it kinda hurts when she hits me, matter of fact vision gets a little blurry if she gives me a blow to the temple, but it's not enough to make a grown man cry...but it's the principle. i've had to go as far as setting up a hidden camera in our apartment just in case she would hit me again...and she did. and i got it on tape. last night we fought and she started hitting me in the head...then she took my keys and atm cards...and as i was approaching her to get my ---- back...she falls on the floor and starts screaming like it was a scary movie. HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!! HAAAAAAAAAA!!!! why? to get the neighbors attention! and i didnt even hit her!!! NEVER HAVE! but in the back of my mind i knew that i would be cool cuz i have concrete evidence. as soon as she started screaming with that crazy look in her eyes, i bolted out the apartment, neighbors at attention and i told them i was calling the cops.
the last thing i would want is my son not to ever see his father...like a lot of unfortunate kids with crazy single moms.
just be glad that the mouth you were feeding wasn't biting you at dinner time. it's the worst feeling in the world to work a 12 hr shift to put dinner on the table only to be fighting once you get home to eat that dinner.
09-02-2006, 04:06 PM
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Originally Posted by kuroko
Sit her bitch *** down and explain that you're through with her, will be seeing your son and be staying in his life, and if she doesn't like it she can take it up in court.
Originally Posted by Kenny Rogers
Try to talk some sense into her... (I've tried, doesn't always work).
09-02-2006, 04:30 PM
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Originally Posted by myAE86turbo
trying to get a women to comprehend and listen is impossible, they only talk. they'll learn only on their own.
I spent a month in jail in 2003 for doing nothing but wake her up. Had to take 52 weeks of anger management and ------- fees upt he ***. Not to mention a shitty month in the county jail. That on top of all her Bullshit with her always accusing me of cheating and wanting to know eveything idid of avery day just drove me nuts. I couldnt do anything outside the house cause she would say i was not spending enough time with her and my son. WOmen always want more than what they can have and i think im done with relationships for now.
09-02-2006, 05:13 PM
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damn julio sucks to hear that ---- isn't working out between the two of you. i'm not trying to take sides but her saying that she's gonna tell the boy that you died is crossing the line. be smart and keep the ext message and go to court. I really hope you didn't delete the text.
I know you hate the courts but in a situation like this there is no option but to let the courts handle it. I dunno if you are up for the responsibility of full custody, but you might be able to push with it. but even if you were granted full custody let her see the boy cause not doing so if fucked up.
I know you hate the courts but in a situation like this there is no option but to let the courts handle it. I dunno if you are up for the responsibility of full custody, but you might be able to push with it. but even if you were granted full custody let her see the boy cause not doing so if fucked up.
09-02-2006, 05:15 PM
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Damn julio... your my cousin and everything so that kinda ------- makes this situation shittier. I mean seriously, i never see you happy, your always telling me about the ---- she does, or doesnt do, about the threats, and for ***** sake you went to jail for some bullshit.
#1 thats fucked up that she wants to tell mathias that you died or something. She has no ------- right, your his father, and you've always been there for him, and getting seperated or divorced, wont ever change that.
#2 About the child support, theres no way around that, you will have to pay it no matter what and she will have to use it for him, childcare, food, clothes, and stuff like that, she cant ask you for anymore money other than what the state asks.
#3 just go ahead and get seperated, or divorced, why do you want to keep beating a dead horse for?
Seriously man, your just better off on your own, if she's going to be accusing you of ---- all the time, and she's never going to be happy, why the hell are you even going to try? I know you two have known each other for years, but your just going to have to let go. And if she threatens you by telling you your not going to see your son, go to court and get joint custody. Just because you dont want to see her doesnt mean you dont want to see your son...
#1 thats fucked up that she wants to tell mathias that you died or something. She has no ------- right, your his father, and you've always been there for him, and getting seperated or divorced, wont ever change that.
#2 About the child support, theres no way around that, you will have to pay it no matter what and she will have to use it for him, childcare, food, clothes, and stuff like that, she cant ask you for anymore money other than what the state asks.
#3 just go ahead and get seperated, or divorced, why do you want to keep beating a dead horse for?
Seriously man, your just better off on your own, if she's going to be accusing you of ---- all the time, and she's never going to be happy, why the hell are you even going to try? I know you two have known each other for years, but your just going to have to let go. And if she threatens you by telling you your not going to see your son, go to court and get joint custody. Just because you dont want to see her doesnt mean you dont want to see your son...
