88crxSi

yup... i blame it on TV and movies! Girls see what movie romance is like and soaps and crap like that and actually think that stuff happens in real life.

45psi

i want a girl thats very domestic(cooks well, cleans,loves having sex with me only, ect, ect...). some one said it right earlier, they all have issues. the trick is finding one with less issues than you.

14Bn4G

welll, my ol lady has busted the front and back windshields outta my car, threw a lawn chair at it and dented my front driver fender and door, she's busted a bowl over my head, thrown NUMEROUS objects at me, gets mad over DUMBSHIT and tells me to leave, then when I go to leave she tries to kill me and trash my car...the bottom line is if you're a man and slangin' that good dick, women cannot handle it, you have the control over the relationship and it pisses them off, they're SUSPICIOUS about EVERY little thing(yes even when you get on the internet to discuss your interests such as cars), cause they wanna be the ONLY one who's gettin' that fire lovin'...here's my lil motto when it comes to women...I can't live with them, and they can't live without me peaaace

45psi

this is the email i got after i found out my X-girlfriend slept around when i was in jail... bitch

"Dear Colten,
i know this doesn't seen like alot now but, i'm SORRY : ( i never ever, ever, ever, wanted to hurt you. being "bored" was no excuse for what i did. you are a very important part of my life and i don't want to lose you. what i've been doing is none of your business but i told you cus i want to be your friend and being honest with you was the first step. sorry i didn't tell you sooner but, i loved you and couldn't bare the thought of hurting/losing you. please don't hold this against me or make me feel like a bad person because what i do with my life is my business and true friends except and support not hate and belittle. i still love you and think about you often, you're a great person and you've accomplished alot with you're life. it would hurt me greatly if we weren't friends, please don't hurt me ANYMORE!!! and when you decide that you're going to sleep with someone else i don't want to know, because it would hurt me to know you weren't shareing that special moment with me. (so i know what i told you must not of been the greatest news in the world) i never wanted to hurt you in any way, sorry : (

Love Always,
Erika"

It will be a long time until i let girl get close to me.

kErO-916

im with you 45, im tired of having my unturbocharged lil heart ripped out and stepped on, i am so sick of bullshit! they are NEVER in the WRONG and they NEVER see how they have faulted, and if you try and walk away, THAT MEANS YOU HAVE A BACK UP PLAN, BULLSHIT!!!!!!!!!!!! *chokes out his pillow*

88crxSi

what i've been doing is none of your business
funny how they try to turn it around on you huh...

please don't hold this against me or make me feel like a bad person because what i do with my life is my business and true friends except and support not hate and belittle.
again.. your fault for being mad right? LOL HELL NO

it would hurt me greatly if we weren't friends, please don't hurt me ANYMORE!!!
wait a second.. because what she did made u the happiest person in the world right?


did u get any gifts, car parts, flowers, anything, cuz we'd have to do crap like that for YEARS. sometimes I HATE woman too. either way. too the both of u, (kero and 45) good luck w/ everything

lippychicky

I think it's sad how relationships fall apart like this. Men and women are so different in how they handle things. Maybe, "kErO" the reason you are being accused of having a back up plan is because of past experience. Of course you are the only one that knows for sure what you do. Look at both sides though. You are wrong in saying that women think they are ALWAYS right because that's not true. Alot of men think they are always right. Men and women are sooo different. Why do you think there are so many books on how to fix relationships and couselors to help? It's not easy to try and make two different worlds come together. Even the happiest of couples have problems. If you never learn how to work on them then there will always be a gap there. When a man can just walk away from a long-term relationship and act like it means nothing, the woman is going to assume he has something else because we go through different emotions when we try to let go of someone. It's hard to work being in a relationship. It takes awhile to fall in love, but it takes even longer to try to fall out of love. If you can so easily fall out of love then maybe you never were in love. YOU are the only one that can decide how you feel. No matter how much people try to tell you what you SHOULD feel it doesn't mean you can convince your heart of that. If you can let go of someone you care for just like that then yes, let go. But if there is a part of you that wants to hold on then maybe you should ask yourself why? No one said love was easy. And no one EVER said dealing with the opposite sex was easy. Too many different ways of thinking and feeling. It's gets complicated. But then ask yourself how "worth it" it is to you. If it's just not worth the effort then you answered your own question. But if part of you thinks it might be "worth it" then there is a reason for it. The heart makes life harder than the mind does. It's easier to convince yourself to let go until your heart comes into the picture. You are the only one that knows YOU.."kero" it sounds like you have already made up your mind though. I think you know how the other person is feeling, even if you choose not to admit it. I think you also know this situation is alot more in depth than you want to admit. But in the end you have to do what's best for you. That is just my opinion..which means very little on here I'm sure. Listen to more than just what people are saying. As You sit there thinking "what the hell did i do?" Think about how much this involves more than just you. This is two people involved. The other person is trying to figure ---- out too. You KNOW how she feels. Stop acting like you don't and then maybe she will open up. And on your side of things...maybe she needs to figure out how to talk to you so that you will listen. Or maybe you should try really listening so that you can see where she is coming from. Alot to throw away..isn't it? Maybe it will never work, but then again maybe it would. Love is a strong emotion.......how sad that the only civil communication some people have is on the internet........
You are loved very much and I know you know that

kErO-916

well ms lippy, maybe at the same time you should take into consideration, the past is EXACTLY that.... The PAST, if you choose to hold that against someone for the rest of their life then all that is going to happen is conflict, nothing is ever as easy as we all want it to be, and the only time my better half seems to care is when she believes that i have someone else, what the hell is that about? why is it she cant just care and love me UNCONDITIONALLY? why does every moment in life have to be a bone to pick? why is it if i were to say i went out with a friend in her head it really means 'hes lying, he went out and fucked this bitch, yadda yadda' there is a point to everything, i dont know the point to this exactly, i know i am trying, and i know she is too. the stress of the factor is, maybe im NOT the one that wants someone else, maybe im the one just sitting on the brink of insanity because of all the bullshit that is in the way and choose not to want to put myself in that situation, you know as well as i do, i want this more than anything, but if everyday is a fight, every moment is a arguement, every breath you wish you weren't breathing then why would anyone stay in that position ?

your right it is really sad that this is the only place to be civil

fiero_god

Im starting to like hearing from lippy she has alot to say and it all makes sense , i always enjoy listening to the other sex (only if they have something good to say and not bitch) and there opinion on things. I think you two need to finally open up and be straight out honest with each other. I can imagine its hard to forget about the past but pay heed to the future for that is where you are going. You two really need to talk person to person instead of this way. It is sad when it comes to this.

kErO-916

but fiero, whatever would you do without us ?