Spenser

o ----, I forgot to say i'm not single. been seeing the same girl for over 6 months now.

working is for fools.

projekteg

damn dawg, what's up with that?

AgentMurdoc

Dunno man, not feelin' her as much. I love her to the fullest, and I know she is the same to me. But there are just things that are hinting me that it may not be right (or maybe I'm just paranoid). I've done little tests and she failed, but she did pass some. But the main thing that makes me think is that in the first year (maybe year and a half) she wanted to call it quits 3 times. Within a short period like that there's something she don't like/want. Well presently she's stuck on me like glue, but maybe too much... I just confused.

projekteg

that's what happens when you've been with someone so long, you start to notice things and certain things irritate you and ---- like that and you're just thinking 'what the ----' in the back of your head. i don't know, now that i'm settled down, i look back on my past relationships (i had 3 long reltionships before i got married) and i realize they were good girls and any one of them would have made a good wife, but i was the one that needed to change

AgentMurdoc

Hmmm.. teggy you be speakin some wise words. Makin' me think n ----. I dunno, maybe it is just me. Maybe I should stop thinkin about all these other girls that 'could have been'. I've met a few girls (tempted but didn't do nothin), most definitely hotter, that seemed more compatible. Lots of common interest and could chat for hours, most importantly goofy. I'm a goofy guy and i like goofy girls. Girl I'm with girlie-girl, shopping high heels all that ish. Also I need an intellegent girl, and she isn't cuttin it right now (seems shallow I guess but the level she is at is kind of a turn off ). I dunno, I also don't like people that ditch their homies, she doin' it quite a bit. Look at this drama I got myself into.

MikeJ-2009

If you try to find someone that is "perfect" for you, you'll never get married. Wifes aren't perfect, nobody is.

RENR

very true, but y marry someone with faults that you cant accept? you can accept some things while others you cant, but to me its the small things that matter.

murdoc, if she gives you some good loving and cooks some bomb *** food then she's a keeper. just ignore her the rest of the time.lol

AgentMurdoc

Oh I know that for sure, I'm not looking for the 'perfect' but something closer. I know I'll never find perfect ... now all this posting has got me thinkin... I guess I'll think about it more driving to the post office to pick up my bills, which missy helped me with.

projekteg

hey man, we in da same boat, projekteg = goofy, natale (prjekteg's wife)= not so goofy, much so shoppy, much so dressy uppy want attention, not very compatable, but i love her i had one girl that chill as hell, i like to refer to her as 'my down *** bitch', but she moved and crushed projekteg, cause he was a playa and couldn't do long distance, home girl was cool and knew that and was willing to let projekteg do his thing, but she was still ther for him, but he fucked it up and married the first white girl that came along. here's a pic of 'my down *** bitch' eileen.........



moral of the story.... should have, would have, could have, ---- dat hold on to what you got, there will always be some one else some where some time, but if you think like that, you'll never be happy b/c you'll always be thinking 'what if' instead of enjoying what you have.

AgentMurdoc

Exactly mang, I don't know if I could live with her the way she is, let alone marry her. And I'm with you, the small things bother the ---- outta me.

Sucky thing is I thik the only thing she knows how to cook is rice.