---- up last night.. relationship ----(update)
11-12-2006, 05:00 PM
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Re: ---- up last night.. relationship ----
Originally Posted by crxmatt2
Yeah, I didn't give her my number or ask her any contact info. Only issue is.. her best friend was there.. and i graduated with her.. and she knows my girlfriend. I hope word doesn't get around because everyone was drunk so hopefully they forget what happened. Also everyone there which was like 10 people were from my hometown..
11-12-2006, 05:06 PM
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Re: ---- up last night.. relationship ----
tell her you went to the party had a ok time met a pretty cool chick named amanda thats all. She will probably be mad but not leave your *** mad then if she heres anything else denie everything pretent like she(amanda) is crazy, just down play this ----. DONT ---- UP AGAIN IF YOU ACUALLY LIKE YOUR J/F!
11-12-2006, 05:13 PM
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Re: ---- up last night.. relationship ----
thanks for all of the advice guys. See, the thing is. My g/f now lives here part time and goes to school.. i pay all of the bills.. i doa ll of the cleaning.. I have to do it all.. she does nothing to contribute.. so that was a factor that played in last night.. iw as just like i dont give a ----. Now I understand she goes to school and such, but she should get a part time job and at least pay like utilities. I think i'm gonna hang low for a while and try to get out of the relationship before she finds out I cheated on her.
11-12-2006, 05:20 PM
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Re: ---- up last night.. relationship ----
Let me put some basic Tom Lykis action on this...
- If you are younger than 26 years old, you should not be in a "relationship" of any kind. A year and a half is a long term relationship. Assuming that you are under 26, you should be out there experiencing every girl you can, not locking yourself into a long term relationship.
That said, if you are grinding and cuddling with this other chick, that should be a good indicator to you that you are not getting what you need from your current situation. No matter how guilty you might feel, you still saw it, wanted it, and did it, so obviously you are not completely happy with what you have. It might feel "comfortable" and you might care about your girlfriend, but you have to be honest with yourself, figure out what you really want, and then move forward.
I'm not saying that you should confess to your current girl, as that will cause a lot of hurt and drama. Just figure out what you want, and cut her loose if she doesn't fit into your desires.
Craig
- If you are younger than 26 years old, you should not be in a "relationship" of any kind. A year and a half is a long term relationship. Assuming that you are under 26, you should be out there experiencing every girl you can, not locking yourself into a long term relationship.
That said, if you are grinding and cuddling with this other chick, that should be a good indicator to you that you are not getting what you need from your current situation. No matter how guilty you might feel, you still saw it, wanted it, and did it, so obviously you are not completely happy with what you have. It might feel "comfortable" and you might care about your girlfriend, but you have to be honest with yourself, figure out what you really want, and then move forward.
I'm not saying that you should confess to your current girl, as that will cause a lot of hurt and drama. Just figure out what you want, and cut her loose if she doesn't fit into your desires.
Craig
11-12-2006, 05:24 PM
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Re: ---- up last night.. relationship ----
Originally Posted by TunerToys
Let me put some basic Tom Lykis action on this...
- If you are younger than 26 years old, you should not be in a "relationship" of any kind. A year and a half is a long term relationship. Assuming that you are under 26, you should be out there experiencing every girl you can, not locking yourself into a long term relationship.
That said, if you are grinding and cuddling with this other chick, that should be a good indicator to you that you are not getting what you need from your current situation. No matter how guilty you might feel, you still saw it, wanted it, and did it, so obviously you are not completely happy with what you have. It might feel "comfortable" and you might care about your girlfriend, but you have to be honest with yourself, figure out what you really want, and then move forward.
I'm not saying that you should confess to your current girl, as that will cause a lot of hurt and drama. Just figure out what you want, and cut her loose if she doesn't fit into your desires.
Craig
- If you are younger than 26 years old, you should not be in a "relationship" of any kind. A year and a half is a long term relationship. Assuming that you are under 26, you should be out there experiencing every girl you can, not locking yourself into a long term relationship.
That said, if you are grinding and cuddling with this other chick, that should be a good indicator to you that you are not getting what you need from your current situation. No matter how guilty you might feel, you still saw it, wanted it, and did it, so obviously you are not completely happy with what you have. It might feel "comfortable" and you might care about your girlfriend, but you have to be honest with yourself, figure out what you really want, and then move forward.
I'm not saying that you should confess to your current girl, as that will cause a lot of hurt and drama. Just figure out what you want, and cut her loose if she doesn't fit into your desires.
Craig
