dragon

to tell you the truth we dont know who this girl is and he doesn't either. To be on the safe side I wouldn't have done that because of my experiance. You dont put all your eggs in one basket and dont get your hopes up. Its just one date. No if he went on a couple of dates and he knew her longer than i wouldn't care. But you, me, and him both dont know this girl and know how she is really like.

BeastBass

exactly. I was talking to Johnny about this, what is the point of having to work for something in a relationship? Not even for something sexual, just anything at all. Relationships are about two people who enjoy eachother, and if you lead someone along making them work for something, you are taking advantage of whatever issues they have. As a human, I certainly do not appreciate anyone trying to have a powertrip over me.

Do something nice for someone, and they will most likely reciprocate.

gurusan

That's also true. It also depends how long he's known her.


Werd mang. Karma.

Be cool and do good ---- around and it will come back to you.

Be an *** or whine about how the world sucks...then the world will suck.

BeastBass

is one little gesture of kindness really so bad though? If she turns out to be some bitch, its not like he was madly in love with her. Personally I just think some faith in the goodness of people needs to be restored. All we ever hear about is the bad people, when there are plenty more who are good. Giving her the flower might just show that he has faith that she could be someone really great, and he is willing to take a chance.

dragon

hey i want that too but its not always like that from what i went through. im just saying giving him my opinion like he asked. if her really wants to give her a flower go ahead.

gurusan

lol we made a huge deal about this.

BeastBass

heh, we did but oh well :P he just has a really good idea of what our opions are lol

LSD Motorsports

Part of me agrees with you and part of me doesnt. Some really good input from Whitey as always. However i thinking playing games and all the mental stuff of what she will think is a bunch of crap. Theres nothing wrong with being nice if thats who you are. Letting some bitch walk over you and run things is a whole different story. However in this case, i do think its definately to early for that kind of suprise. Those things are always better for later when she starts losing interest, not when shes most interested. When your first getting together, girls dont care what the hell you do / look like for the date etc, they are already sprung.
Hope this helps.

FastLS

Wait a date or two, or when you can have normal conversation outside of the dating scene. In causual conversation find her favorite 1) flowers and 2) sex position. Then leave her the flowers. She'll be suprised. When she has sex with you because of the flowers, then summon up from the depths of your mind(assuming you rememberd) her favorite sex position... and well that gets you nowhere... ---- it no you shouldn't leave her flowers.

Normally to win my girls over I just leave 8mm video tapes of them taking a shower and/or dump on their car early in the morning with a note in scratch writing that says "I wub u"... they love baby talk.

EG-prince

ahahahahahhahahaha that is so HMT of you. Perfection here guys, study this. You need money for your turbo projects and are expected to save your money for it by whatever means necessary.