need some og help deciding
#13
Re: need some og help deciding
im not so much worried about her being prgnant, but i need to separate these two. financially it makes alot of sense to stay here where its cheap, and my dad wont be here. but its also just postponing us moving out again. its gunna happen sooner or later, i just cant decide.
#18
Re: need some og help deciding
Originally Posted by 90boostdaccord
kinda sounds to me like you are growing up, and your old man doesn't know how to deal with it. you can't live with him forever, esp. with a bambino on the way. your old lady should be cleaning and cooking, and not complaining about it, because that's what women do when they are unemployed.
Originally Posted by jagojon3
Make it later then. Save up some money now before you have the little beast.
Originally Posted by Cray91
yeah. Just wait til u have to make the real decision.
#19
Re: need some og help deciding
Originally Posted by RotaryGeek
most of it is my dad bitching about her not cleaning and not working. and then her saying she does clean and so on and other ----.
Well?
#20
Re: need some og help deciding
If you sit down and talk about the problems civilly when there is no immediate problem, it is amazing how 2 adults can work things out. I'm guessing if she doesn't work, she is not putting in a solid 8 hours a day cleaning. If she is living there free and not working full time, she should spend at least a solid 2 hours a day cleaning, and that could make most houses spotless.