Hob684

what he said^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

ToeJam

The same could be said for men too, but there are exceptions to every rule.
To the original poster; she lied to you and was hiding ---- from you and can't be trusted. Now you will have to wonder what she is up to all the time and always wonder if she is messing around. If you don't have trust in a relationship, you have nothing.

mycrx

bottom line

dont trust anything that bleeds for a week and still lives.

Cray91

My friend can look up any number, he works for qwest. Doubt he will get it for ya though, he gets canned if they catch him.

Cell #'s are pretty much impossible to get unless you have the statement, and maybe they put the names.

mycrx

if your really that worried there is many places online u pay like 120 bucks and they get u all incoming and outgoing calls and ---- for like a few months u choose, kinda spendy for a bitch though. but hey if she loves you and u love her you wouldnt be worried.

boosthappy

on with the -----s

boosthappy

damnit, anyway this girl must have some good ----- for you to be all stressing over

hoggy

I can believe that she hid it from without bad intentions, not that I condone it. I used to see her IMing this guy before and I got real pissed about it. She says she is very scared of my temper, which I do have a temper, but I don't think its as bad as she says. Its not like I hurt her or anything that isn't mine. I think I'm just gonna ride this one out....see what happens.

BTW, I am 23 and she is 24, we've been together for close to 3 years now and I have known her for 8 years, we had previous relationships as well. Not something you throw away real quick.

Thanks for all the input, I'll let you gusy know if anything changes.

Dmx20

I'm with Boost, its a shame her mom is dead because that would have worked perfectly. Boning someone's mom is the ultimate revenge. Oh, and delete AOL IM off your computer, if you have it. $50 says shes cyber------- him on it for now until she gets an excuse to "visit her cousin"

stenseltizm

I had a girl that did the same type of ---- to me. We were together for three years and she'd say the same ---- if I caught her lying 'I was affraid of your reaction, or I knew you'd be pissed' making it sound all inocent. If she's afraid of your reaction, it's cause she's doing something wrong and knows it. We lived together for a year, and she'd tell me ---- like she wanted to marry me and ----, but in the end its not what they say. It's how they act. And getting convinced by her that her lies were your fault will make you fairly insecure and feel guilty for checking up on her. That will make you unhappy, and do dumb ---- for a girl not worth it. When this chick broke up with me, I spent some time worrying and tryin to get her back and ----, but in the end it was the best thing that ever happened to me. I shows you that your insecurities will let you lie to yourself and believe what she says, not what you see. Then when you see how insecure she made you, you won't be so gullible next time.

If she is a good girl, ride it out. If she's not, don't lie to yourself- it will make you do dumb ---- that you'll be embarrassed about later. But in a relationship that's not about -----buddies, honesty is the key. Don't let her convince you her lying was your fault.