My sons 1st day at a day care...Rant..
08-31-2004, 03:07 PM
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My sons 1st day at a day care...Rant..
SO my "fiance" ( yes ill be getting married next year ) and i thought it would be best if we sent our son to daycare only because our family members are unreliable and tend to not take care of them as they said they are.
Today was his first day and maria took him in the morning. She told me he was crying when she was leaving and i began to think back when i was small and i went to "head start". I remember being left their with total strangers, it was awkward, i was 4 i think...yes i remember that far back, but i can only imagine how my son must have felt.
As i write this i get all sad to think he might see it it as us abandoning him, but he's yet too small to understand.
The reason we chose this is because she needed to get back to work to pay off all her school loans and her car. she's almost done with it( 300 left to pay ) and she owns the POS toyota Celica ( 95 GT ) anyway i know this is a long rant and i just felt like venting how i felt.
I called the day care center and they told me he's doing fine and that he was sleeping...so thats good!
after work im going to the holmes depot and getting some PVC piping so i can try and drift my R/C's he's gonna love chasing the cars..haha...
Today was his first day and maria took him in the morning. She told me he was crying when she was leaving and i began to think back when i was small and i went to "head start". I remember being left their with total strangers, it was awkward, i was 4 i think...yes i remember that far back, but i can only imagine how my son must have felt.
As i write this i get all sad to think he might see it it as us abandoning him, but he's yet too small to understand.
The reason we chose this is because she needed to get back to work to pay off all her school loans and her car. she's almost done with it( 300 left to pay ) and she owns the POS toyota Celica ( 95 GT ) anyway i know this is a long rant and i just felt like venting how i felt.
I called the day care center and they told me he's doing fine and that he was sleeping...so thats good!
after work im going to the holmes depot and getting some PVC piping so i can try and drift my R/C's he's gonna love chasing the cars..haha...
08-31-2004, 03:55 PM
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Re:My sons 1st day at a day care...Rant..
lol :P
Well (not to sound like a sissy) but my only job for three years now has been to take care of children (basically a day care). The younger kids too tend to feel like their parents are neglecting them, but when its explained to them that their parents just need to do some things and thats its a part of life, they usually understand. Don't worry about your kid, he'll be fine
Well (not to sound like a sissy) but my only job for three years now has been to take care of children (basically a day care). The younger kids too tend to feel like their parents are neglecting them, but when its explained to them that their parents just need to do some things and thats its a part of life, they usually understand. Don't worry about your kid, he'll be fine
08-31-2004, 03:58 PM
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Re:My sons 1st day at a day care...Rant..
First, julio your feet stink :P
Second, I wouldn't worry to much about your son, he's a nice kid, I'm sure he'll get along just fine with the other children.
Soon he'll not wanna come home cause he'll have a daycare girlfriend :P
I wish I went to day care. We were too cheap for day care, my day care was my auntie who was on welfare that could give a rats *** if I ate or not or if I was there or not. She'd rather spend her food stamps on whatever the ---- she spent it on.
Second, I wouldn't worry to much about your son, he's a nice kid, I'm sure he'll get along just fine with the other children.
Soon he'll not wanna come home cause he'll have a daycare girlfriend :PI wish I went to day care. We were too cheap for day care, my day care was my auntie who was on welfare that could give a rats *** if I ate or not or if I was there or not. She'd rather spend her food stamps on whatever the ---- she spent it on.
08-31-2004, 04:09 PM
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Re:My sons 1st day at a day care...Rant..
thanks for the words of encouragement...hey murdizzle i dont think you eat much now anyway... :P
BTW its only $90 a week so its no so bad...i pay the rent and she pays for the daycare..hey its only fair...did i ention rent is $525 for a 1 bedroom?
BTW its only $90 a week so its no so bad...i pay the rent and she pays for the daycare..hey its only fair...did i ention rent is $525 for a 1 bedroom?
08-31-2004, 04:32 PM
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Re:My sons 1st day at a day care...Rant..
i know it sucks but its a good thing, otherwise when he gets to school he will be in for the shock of his life.
its good to get kids use to the fact of being in a social enviroment. I have a freind who stayed at home up until it was time for kindergarten, and his mom has always been the stay at home mom, his personality sucks.
its good to get kids use to the fact of being in a social enviroment. I have a freind who stayed at home up until it was time for kindergarten, and his mom has always been the stay at home mom, his personality sucks.
