Moral Dilemna, Help me
#11
Re:Moral Dilemna, Help me
it all depends, it seems that the love of your girl, your turbo hondas and a solid education with a nice side job is a far greater asset then maybe gettin a record deal. just think which one of the two youd be able to live without, and theres your answer
#14
Re:Moral Dilemna, Help me
Originally Posted by BlinD
You can always fall back. Cant live on what ifs.
As for the girl, she'll be done with school next spring, and I told her if I don't have enough money to make it worthwhile I wouldn't do it, but if there's enough money, then I'd want her along with me. She's pretty skeptical of the whole thing and it just stresses her out, so I'm gonna leave the topic alone until I know something. She'd be alright, but I think we'd get trashed if I left without her, which after 5 years is rough.
bigwig- I'm not saying I'm elvis or ---- here, but I haven't been actively looking to go big either. I've been playing the scene for 5 years, and that makes me 20. The band doesn't suck, and neither do I. For reference, when I played more, I was often playing with cats from the new power generation, yeah Prince's musicians. Not every average joe can say that. We're talking Michael Bland, Tommy B, Sonny T, those guys, we're all buds, and they won't deal with ******* musicians, it's demoting for them.
Travis don't worry, if I go big my first purchase will be a load of stuff for the civic. and HMT will be with me all the way. I hop on here every chance I get, and that won't change unless all you guys leave...
wow that got really long, ED - you know what's up, but I've just gotta make sure what I do is right, and not have any regrets...
#18
Re:Moral Dilemna, Help me
I know its probably been said before but youre 20 years old dude. You are so young you can go back to school in a couple years no problem, and no offence but you probably wont be with your girlfriend forever anyways, A good girlfriend would support you no matter what you decide to do and if she doesnt youre better off with out her. you know if you dont do this you will regret it probably the rest of your life. you have the chance to expierience something most can only dream of doing and it could make you a better person because of what you will expierience. as for your friends, if theyre true friends they will be there when you get back plus youll probably meet other cool people anywayz. if it were me there would be no hesitation. good luck man
steve
steve
#19
Re:Moral Dilemna, Help me
Originally Posted by imadouche
I know its probably been said before but youre 20 years old dude. You are so young you can go back to school in a couple years no problem, and no offence but you probably wont be with your girlfriend forever anyways, A good girlfriend would support you no matter what you decide to do and if she doesnt youre better off with out her. you know if you dont do this you will regret it probably the rest of your life. you have the chance to expierience something most can only dream of doing and it could make you a better person because of what you will expierience. as for your friends, if theyre true friends they will be there when you get back plus youll probably meet other cool people anywayz. if it were me there would be no hesitation. good luck man
steve
steve
#20
Re:Moral Dilemna, Help me
there are always gonna be risks when wanting to succeed. you can't take a step forward with out paying your dues. so don't expect something to come to you that easy. work your way up the ladder and put your full potential. choose from either or. because from what i see, what you have going now is really nothing much it's something but now much. until later.. your only making 17k a year and half you school paid. then you could possibly have a record deal, which i can guarrantee it will pay more than where your working. RISKS BABY!! that something you have to think about and take a gamble on.