I told a girl something that i should'nt of
 

last night i had a little get together, we ended up smoking a ---- load of weed and drank till we where pissing more than what we can drink. i was so fucked up there was this girl who i'm like totaly in love with, she knows that i like her but i never told her. we ended up getting in a little fight over some bullshit so i kicked her out of my house. so, later that night she calls my apologising, but she told me why do i have to be an instigator with her only. i don't know what i was thinking but i told her how i felt about her, and thats why i acted like that tords her. i told her you know "i think you are very attractive, smart, great personality and blah blah blah. and i think we could make a really good couple. so she said i dunno, we should start off as friends only then maybe see what happens then. the funny thing is she has a boyfriend a really good friend, but he's in like some other state. he's a marine and doesn't come until like 2 weeks. what should i do.

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I say go for it bro. No harm in being friends right? ;D

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Well that's the kiss of death. Anytime a girl wants to be "friends" thats a very nice way of saying im not into you but I dont want to hurt your feelings.
Thats my two cents anyway, but what the hell do I know about women.

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Yeah I'm with CC on this one...besides yours friend is a marine. If he finds out ;)..... you'll be uglier than you already afe afer he's done.

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just ry being cool friends with her and always try to do what's in her interest and maybe she'll start falling for you....awwww! :-*

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Yeah, the old "Let's just be friends" ----. Keep her as a friend and maybe one of these drunk nights she will forget that she has a boyfriend and fall in love with you for a night. :P Just be nice to her. You can always keep her on the side burner.
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Marines cant stop bullets... but anyways if he is a good friend you shouldnt go for it, how would you feel if one of your friends did the same to your girl while you were away?
If I were him i would stab you with some broken glass break it off in you and stomp on the wound. but thats just me

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marines can't stop bullets but they can definately mangle your arm before you reach for that gun...
You're about to do something that might not have good results... I'm not talking about getting mangled, I'm talking about losing a good friend(you said he was) AND having the girl dump you later on, it's a common lose lose situation, and I've NEVER seen it work out. Besides, be prepared to have a confrontation with the guy because you basically came on to his girl knowing that they were together, and chicks love nothing more than seeing two guys fight over them, so you can rest assured that she will bend this information you gave her into a marraige proposal and attempted rape before it gets to him.

You may not think this is the way things will be played out, or that she wouldn't do that, but trust me, all girls have a "sensationalist nutcase" streak in them.

The guy might not be a "good" friend, if not then screw it go for it, but it's harder to replace a buddy than it is to replace some shorty.

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Woooohhhh, after re-reding that and seeing this:
I retract my last post. Don't ------- touch her. Keep your horny hands to yourself and your dick in your pants. Don't ---- with your friends girl. That's not cool. Plus, he's in the marines, those fuckers are about as stable as gas in a welding shop. Imagine how your buddy will feel when he finds out(and he will) that you have been banging his chick. Just remember the old saying "Bros before hoes"
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---- me too, i didnt relize he was a friend! dont do it! unless you could give a rats ass about that fool and you guys arent that close, then go for it! just like the Doc said, Bros before Hoes!!

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Hey man just be cool....stay distant friends with the lady and keep your friend.
You already have the first love of your life in you driveway ;). Give your Rx7 some more luv...

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I haven't read the whole topic, so I don't know if someone already gave this advice.

Anyway, in Holland we have a thing like DIFFERENT AREA CODES... so if she is in a different area code, it's not cheating for her!! Tell her that!

I'm sure your friend will understand it :-X




(Sem, better keep your girl close ;D)

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ok, i just got off the phone with her and all she could tell me now is how much she wants to break up with him. and how ---- was when he was here. she would only bring up the bad things. she asked me what she should do. i said i dunno, but if you really wan't to hear it as a true friend i'll tell . she paused and i told her i'll call her later. hhhmmmmmm... dunno what i'm gonna do. then again knowing her boyfriend, he treats her like ------- ----. really.

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My gf is in the same areacode as i am :P. She's as close to me as it can get.
she's sitting right here next to me.
hmmmm just tell her the truth man. The truth shall set you FREE!!! ;D

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I'm interested in knowing if you're in traction in oh, say, two weeks...keep us posted!

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dude, if the bitch's boyfriend is a really good friend of yours, your only salvation is to tell him before she does. doofnoil is right. if you guys get into it, it wont be because you lied. even though its never an excuse, you can say that you were plastered and thought she was someone else, or that dont remember anything

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Her boyfruend is a Marine right?Well Ive seen the way they treat there women and it aint the way your supposed to treat them.Ive been working at a Marine base here in San Diego for the last 2 years and I can tell you first hand that these guys have issues with women.Dont do it if she is just going to use you as a way out of her relationship.If you really like her and she just wants to be friends just be her friend.Dont presure her.Dont be the one to tell her to leave her boyfriend either!If you really dig her let things run there course and if they break up then I say waite a couple of months before you step in.

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tap dat ass ! ;D

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What is the prob lem here?

Pretty much as a respectful human being, you do not touch any girl that has a BF. Is a girl worht your integrity?

Worse yet the guy is your friend, friends are those who you protect not those who you take advantage of. It is like a COP that sells dope, he expects you to be the one fending off other guys who are trying to get with her, the last thing he should expect is you ------- him.

Doing the right thing is always hard, trust me I know, I am in an extremely bad situation myself with a girl. This girl tried her best to destroy my life, now I am in a position to destroy hers and exact some revenge, I honestly hope I can let it slide and forgive.

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^bullets are pretty cheap these days man(heavy sarcasm)

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good luck getting your dick sucked.

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btw you screwed up in the order.... f00l



You tell her about her personality, thinks you have in common... other fine quailitys. dont tell her that shes pretty first cause then she knews you want to slam your slong in her ass.

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sweet lies are the best way to get her

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Sounds like hes a dick, she wants you, nuff said.

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You know what man. I read the first post and skipped the rest because i honestly don't even need to read the other posts. there is one simple term you gotta remember here...

"Don't cut another mans lawn". if you know what i mean...

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I agree, bros before hoes. I'd ---- her brains out then tell her BF ( your friend ) about it. Then says " see, dude she was a hoe, and I had to show you that... You owe me a happy meal now ".

No really, keep your friend, forget the girl. bitchs grow on trees, friends that will back you up like a brother don't.

Then again if he's just one of those friends you talk to once every 3 weeks.... Break her off.

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slip her a rufy or a roll and then see how much she "just wants to be friends" ;D

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Nyquel in the left hand, "red smiley face" in the right hand. "If you take the blue pill you'll goto sleep and wake without the coughing, sniffling, sneezing feeling, or you can take the red pill and let me see just how deep the rabbit hole goes".

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I'm agreeing with everybody that said bros before hoes. You are only thinking about what you want right now. When you talk to her, if you havent already, do the right thing and say it is up to her. She may want you...if she does, then she will end it with butt boy and hook up with you. The relationship would feel a lot better if you went about it the right way, and didnt dick over your friend. Honostly all I have to say is, stop being a little BITCH and step up as a man. Tell her you want her but it is her life and she can do as she pleases. If that means staying with Marine boy or not. Just my $.02

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put things into perspective...think about your good friends...now think about all the girls you've gotten with an dated....which is the constant in your life??? i think we all know the answer so don't ever screw that up.

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ROFL, I was cracking up at work after reading that.

oh and long distance relationships are hard on a girl, they NEED the attention and companionship. Just don't be the one she uses to satisfy that temporary need while her Marine is gone.. Cause the backlash would be bad.

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Since you already fucked yourself, don't be a ------' bitch and leave her alone. Don't mess with a homie's chick. And you say she wants to brek-up with her bf, she don't want you, it's called rebound. You'd just be her little puppet since she knows you are in mad "love" with her. Then she'd probably end up dumping you and either going back to your buddy(if he's still your buddy) or find herself a new one. Let's face it man, you screwed up big time. She's got you on her finger like a yo-yo. Never tell the ladies your feelings except "your a cool chick and let's hang" you save all that tender lovin' words after you establish a relationship and you two are really in "love." If you tell 'em before then you either just scare them or you just bought yourself a new leash.

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^^^^^^^^
This man could not be any more right. bitches come and go especially when you are young Good friends are hard to come by

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fold her like a lawn chair ;)