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Old 08-13-2007, 10:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Jorsher
i'm gonna do what i can to avoid this type of bs
So you're not going to have sex with girls? :P
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Old 08-14-2007, 01:42 AM
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file your parenting plan first. for the love of God get to the courthouse before her. its your only chance
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Old 08-14-2007, 07:03 PM
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^ The **** section isn't that great so you know
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Old 08-14-2007, 08:35 PM
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Originally Posted by julio_bOOstamante
now i only have the every other weekend

and if you dont take care of the ------- biz that's all youll ever be seeing him!
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Old 08-15-2007, 03:11 AM
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Originally Posted by julio_bOOstamante
It's like this. My ex ( some of you know her ) is making my life miserable. I cant have my son with me without her asking him who i was with and what we did. That and she holds over my head that if i keep bringing him around my current GF she will limit the time spent with him. I want to see him as much as i can but she enrolls him in classes and YMCA without asking me or thinking how it affects the time i see him. She also asks me to pay for half of the costs of the extracurricular activities. I pay her 500 a month in Child support and I pay for all my sons Benefits. On top of that, she makes more than me. Im not gonna get into how much but we both make enough to make 70-80k combined. I also need to mention that ever since he was born she has included him on her taxes and i have yet to claim him. He was born in 02 and we got married in in 05 and even after the marriage was i able to claim him or head of household. I have been fucked since day one! I'm tired of her ---- and i want to move on. I dont want her to have control over when i can see my son and i guess i need to have the courts help me with this. My plan is to file for custody, divorce before she does. This will be done within the end of this month and she wont know. I have all the e-mails of her bad mouthing me and text messages along with voicemails and various other pieces of evidence.

Im tired of this and i want it to stop.
you are doing the right thing. I dont know if anyone remembers me here but I went through ---- like this and moved to my aunt's farm for a bit. If you think you hate this, your son will come to hate her with a passion. I know I did and it put alot of stress on me for about 7 years of my life. Trust me, this will be the better way for you to go.
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Old 08-15-2007, 08:28 PM
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Originally Posted by 5sfe-camry
you are doing the right thing. I dont know if anyone remembers me here but I went through ---- like this and moved to my aunt's farm for a bit. If you think you hate this, your son will come to hate her with a passion. I know I did and it put alot of stress on me for about 7 years of my life. Trust me, this will be the better way for you to go.
I do remember you slightly. SO you had your parents split up and now you hate your mom?
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Old 08-16-2007, 12:27 AM
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Originally Posted by julio_bOOstamante
I do remember you slightly. SO you had your parents split up and now you hate your mom?
It's not so much hating her as just the amount of ---- and how easily it get's stired up. It adds alot of stress on the kid to deal with it. Moving to a more stable environment will help make it alot more peaceful for you and your son. I know when i moved away, I was like a new person from just being able to have a normal life.

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