I need a divorce!
08-11-2007, 12:21 PM
#21
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Re: I need a divorce!
Originally Posted by signorelli21
its ironic how when you have a relationship with a woman and end up having kids its the man thats really getting fucked, even though you don't discover this until later.
ps she can't limit any of your visitation rights if you are paying child support, otherwise you can sue her and get custody.
ps she can't limit any of your visitation rights if you are paying child support, otherwise you can sue her and get custody.
lsten to this man take that bitch to court!!! if my wife ever pulled some ---- like this i would ------- kill her weomen in general suck and can be so cold blooded when it comes to revenge...dumb -----s hope you get this right...
08-11-2007, 03:19 PM
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Re: I need a divorce!
Talk to your sn(how old is he?)
find out if he would like to live with you
if so, u have joint custody right now because you arnt devorced or that.
once you have the child in your possion you can keep him(your his father)
at that time file for custody, as long as you dont let the ex get a hold of him in that time he is yours.
because you already have the child with you at the tie the custody is filed then she by law has to fiight you for custody, not the other way around.
dont listen to me or anyone else on here. we are not lawyers and your son dezervies better the our half knowing greasy opinions. talk to a lawyer, thats it
There is nothing more important to a young boy then his father
find out if he would like to live with you
if so, u have joint custody right now because you arnt devorced or that.
once you have the child in your possion you can keep him(your his father)
at that time file for custody, as long as you dont let the ex get a hold of him in that time he is yours.
because you already have the child with you at the tie the custody is filed then she by law has to fiight you for custody, not the other way around.
dont listen to me or anyone else on here. we are not lawyers and your son dezervies better the our half knowing greasy opinions. talk to a lawyer, thats it
There is nothing more important to a young boy then his father
08-11-2007, 03:47 PM
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Re: I need a divorce!
Originally Posted by Zeniceguycrx
if so, u have joint custody right now because you arnt devorced or that.
08-11-2007, 04:42 PM
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Re: I need a divorce!
From a woman's opinion, sounds like she is raping you in the *** with sandpaper. Its unfortunate that most states will not award custody to REAL FATHERS/DADS when the mother cannot be proven "unfit". 9 times out of 10 the state will opt to keep a child with the birth mother over anyone, including fathers. I'm hoping this changes to suit the truly good fathers out there, but its just now becoming a slim chance over none.
Two major problems I see you running into here.
If you petition for divorce, she may claim that you have been committing adultery. If your son has said anything about your current girlfriend, you may be in trouble there. She will most likely take what little you have left just based on that. She will cite that your reason for divorce is the other woman, and they will vote in her favor.
Secondly, the divorce will most likely lead to a custody battle, in which she may try to keep you from having the right to any custody. From the sound of whats going on now, she is slowly prying him away OR using him as a pawn for your attention. Even if you are granted joint custody, this actually means that you will see your son on her terms, when it is convenient for her; much like what you're dealing with now.
I'm not sure what kind of positive advice I could give, as this is always a rocky situation. If she is in any way reasonable, try your hand at telling her how it is, the way you need it to be, or get ready for war. Tell her that you are just trying to remain a good father to your son, but that your schedule requires a little more flexibility out of her.
Best of luck to you, I'm always on the side of REAL fathers.
Two major problems I see you running into here.
If you petition for divorce, she may claim that you have been committing adultery. If your son has said anything about your current girlfriend, you may be in trouble there. She will most likely take what little you have left just based on that. She will cite that your reason for divorce is the other woman, and they will vote in her favor.
Secondly, the divorce will most likely lead to a custody battle, in which she may try to keep you from having the right to any custody. From the sound of whats going on now, she is slowly prying him away OR using him as a pawn for your attention. Even if you are granted joint custody, this actually means that you will see your son on her terms, when it is convenient for her; much like what you're dealing with now.
I'm not sure what kind of positive advice I could give, as this is always a rocky situation. If she is in any way reasonable, try your hand at telling her how it is, the way you need it to be, or get ready for war. Tell her that you are just trying to remain a good father to your son, but that your schedule requires a little more flexibility out of her.
Best of luck to you, I'm always on the side of REAL fathers.
08-11-2007, 04:56 PM
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Re: I need a divorce!
if she has feelings for u sill get her to go to a party with you. video tape her getting all drunk and then get a friend of yours to get her to do some drugs, even weed.
use this video evidence to show she is a unfit mother
use this video evidence to show she is a unfit mother
08-11-2007, 05:58 PM
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Re: I need a divorce!
counceling is a must especially when kids are involve, get some counceling professionally, I bet the it will help ya'll to sort out the real problem in the relationship, and give ya'll ideas on how to fix it. plus the judge is going to ask if ya'll got counceling before concidering divorce.
