helping my brother
03-14-2008, 01:41 PM
#21
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Re: helping my brother
Originally Posted by d112crzy
Don't beat his ***, don't report him and don't send him to jail. He will grow hatred and distance himself from those that give him a hard time.
I say just let him know how you feel, refuse to be an enabler, and then woop his monkey *** for stealing your debit card.
03-14-2008, 01:44 PM
#22
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Re: helping my brother
Sorry to say it, but there is nothing you can do. My brother was the same way, and I tried everything, some people cannot see where their actions are leading them. If he is like my brother he lives for the day and not the future. Best thing you can do is remove your feelings from him, because he will have to learn his own lessons. My bro now lives in a trailer with his stoner friends, and works cleaning up garbage.
03-14-2008, 02:34 PM
#23
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Re: helping my brother
DO this....
Show your brother some pictures of the local prisons. (Because thats where he will be living for a long time)
Take your brother to the shady part of town where all the ------s hang out. (those will be his roomates)
Buy your brother some interacial gay **** (So he gets the idea that, that is the only kind of sex he will be getting for a long time.)
IF that doesnt work... i dont know what will
Show your brother some pictures of the local prisons. (Because thats where he will be living for a long time)
Take your brother to the shady part of town where all the ------s hang out. (those will be his roomates)
Buy your brother some interacial gay **** (So he gets the idea that, that is the only kind of sex he will be getting for a long time.)
IF that doesnt work... i dont know what will
03-14-2008, 02:56 PM
#26
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Re: helping my brother
It seems like everyon's brother is fucked up...
So, to keep this going -
My brother (3 yrs older) has been doing drugs since he was 13... when he was about 20 he got into meth. At that point he turned into a real piece of ---- (IE: stealing anything/everything from family, check fraud, etc).
Then he really fucked up- got into a fight with some guy down in CA and killed him. Now he is serving 6 years in the CA prison system. Honestly, the way his life was going prison was the only thing to set him straight. He's got 1 yr left.
So, to keep this going -
My brother (3 yrs older) has been doing drugs since he was 13... when he was about 20 he got into meth. At that point he turned into a real piece of ---- (IE: stealing anything/everything from family, check fraud, etc).
Then he really fucked up- got into a fight with some guy down in CA and killed him. Now he is serving 6 years in the CA prison system. Honestly, the way his life was going prison was the only thing to set him straight. He's got 1 yr left.
03-14-2008, 03:20 PM
#27
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Re: helping my brother
Originally Posted by gen4acclude
ok me and one of his friends, a girl found him or at least the teggy thats in my parents names. i pulled the wire and took the main relay so he is stuck were he is at for the time being. since i posted the original post i found out he has been doing oxy and other ---- to. my debit card turn up missing a few days after i moved and some charge that were not from me accured resulting in alot of overdrafts and charges, i reported thankfully and it being investigated, yah i could beat his ***, but he is my brother and it would do no good anyway, and mark you are right he is probibly going to have to spend time in the clink to learn anything. it just sad this is my blood, i changed this boys diaper and feed him i taught him to ride a bike took his first steps for me, i have had times were i have cryed because i worry and or miss him, almost as if he was my own kid, ---- i put my step father in jail for 4 month for beating him one time. im just afraid that he will ---- and get caught up in the wrong ---- with the wrong people and end up dead we just had a mutual friend die from methodon( spell check) if it was just weed i wouldnt care he can grow out of it but this is serious ----
he won't just stop cold turkey because somthing need's to take it's place, make sence
03-14-2008, 04:27 PM
#28
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Re: helping my brother
Originally Posted by cornfuzed
he won't just stop cold turkey because somthing need's to take it's place, make sence
03-14-2008, 05:38 PM
#30
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Re: helping my brother
I say you lock him up... throw him in a basement or tie him up for a month 
, just don't let him up or out. It will force him to go throw with droll(spell check); or beat his *** to the point he forgets everything (will that might not work), this is the point you have to act quick if he is steeling money he is deeper into this ---- then you think. ACT NOW!!!!
, just don't let him up or out. It will force him to go throw with droll(spell check); or beat his *** to the point he forgets everything (will that might not work), this is the point you have to act quick if he is steeling money he is deeper into this ---- then you think. ACT NOW!!!!
