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many of might not know, but here goes my name is David, i want to share a story with HMT. I cant stand it anymore, but this ---- hurts man. This is the story, I was going out with this girl for 3 years, we lived together and everything. we would talk about getting married and having kids, going to school together, etc ,etc. Im serious this girl i thought was gonna be with me forever. she would do anything for me or so i thought. A couple a months ago i noticed she was acting kind of funny, but not anything major. Correct me if im wrong but ive heard that when your girl is sleeping with someone else besides you, and THEN you go and make love to her or whatever. Her ----- tends to tense up. if this is true, then that is what was going on. sometimes she wouldnt let me touch her or kiss for a matter of fact. Until like 2 months ago, i was at the junkyard, getting something for my NX, when i get home, none of her stuff is around-yes the ------ bitch left me :'(

Anyways before i continue, i want to say that ive been suffering depression for 2 years now. This ---- that she did to me, really fucked me up even worse. I almost didnt finish this semester, i'll admit it i would cry in class, but ill hide with sunglasses or something. I mean why would u do that to someone that gives you everything. I would work at night and go to school in the morning. But anything that she needed i would try to get her. i try to explain my own feeling through psycology, but all i do is think in her.

Just the other day i see her in this car with THIS FUCKER, i followed them to see where they were going, but lost sight of them due to fucken traffic. I thought i was actually gonna kill someone. Im sorry for this being so long, is just that i dont have anyone to share this with. peace my homies

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man that sucks...im no expert but i would say to just drop her out of your mind whenever possible, dont follow her or anything. just be happy you didnt spend any more time with someone that doesnt want to be with you, its not worth the wasted time

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What's with all these relationship posts lately? ???

Double murder suicide. Problem solved.

but seriously, ---- bitches, gimme a fat slut who cooks and does dishes.
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I'm sorry to hear about your situation buddy. I'm not personally sure if her vagina would tense up or anything... but I'm sure you sensed some signs her distance.

Anyhow, I think it might be wise to seek some professional help with your depression. The physicians might think about upping your meds if you are on them or if not they might want to put you on some. NO you are NOT crazy. You just need something to help you cope with life right now. I hope things get better and keep your head up... At least you have more time with your car now! (Its one way of thinking about it.)

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Sorry to hear about your shitty situation. I know that us telling you that its not the end of the world really doesn't help, but women come and go. If she left you, then she's not worth it. When the right one comes along, she'll be in for the long haul, regardless. Feel better, get out there and get some new play, nah mean? Buck up son! You are now free to roam and bang! Just ---- girls like they stole your money and eventually you'll feel better. Maybe you were too nice, gotta give them some hell sometimes. I hope you don't feel like ending your own life over a girl, its not worth it. Feel better.

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Dude, life sucks, people are assholes, live and learn, Alot of this has been happening lately, dont let it get to you that hard. I would try talking to her, see if you can find her at work or something, and catch her on teh way out, dont do anything stupid and stalkerlike, but just see why. Express your feelings to her, and maybe that will help releive some tension. THen go out nad have fun WITH YOUR FRIENDS, do not go out alone, thats the worst time, when your by yourself. Meet some girls, make new friends, and have fun, keep your hoped high, everything happens for a reason.

I say this becasue my best friend just killed himself early april, over a goddamn girl. He had it good too, had a decent job for his age, 18, and was having fun. They had been going out for about a year, but when he started getting violent, she broke it off. He wanted to change, he he couldnt becasue he was a drunk. i never got to speak with him or hang out with him for months, due to the fact this girl was my ex. Made things wierd, but if i would have only known, i could have stopped it. A month after they split, he hung himself, he took the cowards way out. DOnt be stupid, your life's not worth a girl. THe person you hurt the most is your loved ones, i have to live with this everyday now...

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damn not you too. this was the reason why my best friend almost killed himself. trust me dude..it aint the end of the world. see it like this, if you two weren't ment to be together, then your not going to be together. see it as a preparation for someone your ment to be with in the future. but dont try to look for it. take your time to learn and grow from this and you'll be stronger trust me. Hang in there and if your depress seek help or tell someone. dont keep it inside because i know for a fact your not alone. it will be ok trust me i promise

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Similar thing happened to me and we eventually got back together and we are married now, with a house and a dog. Hoping to have a child next year. Give it time, don't dwell too much even though its hard. And cry, it helps. Hope everything works out. One way or the other you'll be fine. You'll find another one that maybe the one. Untill then have fun and live it up. Go out with the guys and go whorin.

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I think the proper HMT etiquite when a relationship goes wrong is to say ---- it and head to Vegas. ;)

Or get pissed off and not think straight, then crash your CRX into a tree.... oops.

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listen to some eamon - don't want you back
made me feel better ;D

Just put your mind on cars, and when your boosted you'll be pickin up all the ladies

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dude same with me i was going with a girl for two and then all the sudden said she loved me to much and couldn't be with me, now i look back and laugh, but at the time it was not funny, very hard at first, it sucks, thats just what women do, i geuss if gives them the feeling of power or something, who knows, i kno one thing i love the single life now, do what ever when ever

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thanks alot guys for the support, i really appreciate all the advice. Yea its time too start looking for girls and working on my car. its just kind of hard to think about those things right now. Lets see what happens. Peace homies

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That's what girls do, so us guys better get used to it... :-\

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beerbong said it all.

Dude, I would sit back and relax. Work on your car with some buddies, go out clubbing, have a few drinks, race a few ricers and all it a night. The last thing you want to do right now is sit and think about her.

Hell, if I lived near ya I'd buy you a box of bud ;D

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dead on with this one my man...

---- sucks man. i had a girl cheating on me for 2 months, then i broke up with her when i found out, so she fucked my roomate. i moved out, and my new roomate did the same thing with another girl. ---- girls, enjoy your car. go around and get hammered and ---- chicks.

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Just stop caring, theres nothing but you in this world, only you to look out for yourself, you and your car love your car more than anything, it'll never leave you and lie, lol ---- i even told my old girlfriend that i loved my car more than her.

But seriously man ---- happens thats gonna affect you, just look at the good side, yin and yang, for every bad there is a good, no matter how small there is a good. Now you dont have to waste money on her ass and FULLY BUILD your engine. We have nothing in this world but ourselves and our possessions.

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That's what happens man, live and learn.

The one that doesn't give you "that feeling" then that's the one you marry.

Otherwise, get over it, it hurts. Recently happened to me, I turn to HMT for my time.

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sorry to hear that man.. almost the exact same ---- happened to me but my g/f never slept with anyone else just she was going to go to someone else while still with me... i'm only 17 so my relationships are as extreme as like living together but i was with this girl for over 2 years and she does this ---- twice... so i just said ---- it i'm done. don't let it get to you so bad... work on cars, it helps keep your mind of everything else..

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serious relations with women alwase equil problems.

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Man, from my experiences, I can tell you that Scottsi knows what he's talking about.
In life, we all have problems that come our way. Most of them are little things that just piss us off, and some are larger. The whole point of life doing this to us is to see if you can work through your problems and build yourself to better deal with the next problem. See, after this problem, the next one will get easier and so on. That's how it works.
I'll tell you, my first girlfriend in high school wrecked me pretty good when it didn't work out, but after a couple girls/jobs/problems come and go, it's no sweat. After working your way through some serious problems in life, you start to realize that the only person you can really count on is yourself. No girl/job/problem is forever. The only thing that is forever is the head on your shoulders and how you use it. Once you work through this one, you'll find yourself with a more challenging problem in no time. It's just how it works, and believe it or not, problems only arrise to make you a better player in the game of life.

"All the good times, all the bad times, they all will pass." -311 ;)

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just stop thinking about it, do something else. you have a place of your own now, right? throw a huge ass party, where do you live? I might go to this huge ass party I heard you are planning, you said to bring lots of loose women, right?

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Dude I know how you are feeling, me and my girlfriend of a year just broke up....the situation is what hurt the most because nothing has been settled or anything, I don't even know what is going on right now. but it has been a week now, and things are getting better, I was super depressed as well, i was on meds for a bit before we broke up, I think i knew it was coming. Like everyone says just block it out....even though it is so hard to do. Before not a minute would go by without thinking about it but now i'm up to like an hour ;) just hang in there dude

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yeah, nothing but yourself in this world, the times will all pass until you die, so get by however you can. Dont let another person make you feel "sad" besides sadness and depression is only a state of mind, if you are depressed your brain is controlling you and making you feel like that, i dont know about you but i control my brain and it isnt gonna make me feel how it wants me to, i feel how i want i think for myself and ---- everyone, cept for the HMT family i love you guys ;D

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If you haven't noticed. Guys stick together. You will always have friends and your car. Women will be there also just not the next morning. hehe. I have never been in that long of a relationship so I really can't say to much. Never force a realtionship. If you don't think that something is right then it usually isn't. All ways talk to them about problems that you think you might have. Being open is key. And if they arn't open with you then they have a problem. Its like taking a test go with your first instinct. Make that woman that you marry count. You don't want to be married twice or 3 times. Thats for the fools that rush in. Just be glad that she left you now and not what you got married. Then you have to go through all that legal ----. But hey we are here and support you through all of this. DON'T GET DRUNK. For like 2 months. that just makes things worse. Belive me. ;) I know. now go work on you car.

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Damn 3 years... thats a hell of a long time... i think that would pretty much ---- up anyones day.... i dont care how much of a man you think you are.... You dont just forget 3 years of your life from 1 day to the next...

Well all i can tell you bud is just take it 1 day at a time... This ---- she pulled is unforgivable i dont care how good the ----- is... its not worth the drama...

Whatever the ---- you do... dont resort to drinking or drugs to forget about it...

Just focus your time and energy on more important things like your car and family.... You will eventually get over her.....

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Sorry to hear man, that ---- hurts. hit me up via pm if you need to talk, i'm always up for it.. and up for that matter.

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Not to be a dick but when did this become Doc.Phills web site?Or Oprah?

Just get over it.Life goes on.There are more important things to come in life other than women.Id be hurt if my son left but not my wife ;)

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that's some of the funniest ---- I've read in a while.

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Lots of pain in this world..

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Sac up and start drinking.

seriously though, just turn your pain into hatred. I've had a number of bitches turn on me, there is nothing you can do about it except learn to stay away from the crazy bitches in the first place. You need to turn the pain into anger and hatred and then focus that towards something like lifting or drinking or something. I was always in the best shape after a bitch left me b/c I would just go to the gym all the time to push out the hatred.

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I know huh? I just send people like you PMs when I have hard times with bitches. :-*


Don't you ever tell anybody anything I told you or you die!!!! >:(

;)
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---- it my girl left now i have 2 fast cars & dont just fall in love with just anyone i.e. liars,cheaters and selfish broads

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I told every one all your little secrets ;).I forwarded your pms to all the members through pm.You just didnt know :P.

Is your PM sitll not working?

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Nope, my PM box is still fuxored. Jeff said his brother was going to fix it for me, but it still doesn't work. :'(
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and all of his emails are sent as "bulk" mail with viruses. ???

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Glad to hear my plan is working. Bwahahahaha 8)
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lol that reminds me... i cant remember what mag it was but it has a column on relationship advice from vinnie paul from pantera, its funny ---- and good advice. We should have an "Ask Dr.Boost" thread, he generally has good advice.