I have read the sticky. additional questions:

I have a 6262 precision ball bearing turbo.

1 What connector do I use for the air intake to the turbo? silicon wouldn't that melt even on the compressor side?

2 out of the compressor, what connector to the aluminum pipe? silicon?

3 out of the turbine, I need a 3inch flange and gasket I believe where to order.

4 for oil going out of pan, where to buy bung. where to by connector to oil line going to turbo.

5 on the turbo side, what connector from oil line to turbo, what an, where to buy

6 the oil line out of turbo, what connector, where to buy

 

Silicone is fine. If you want to get really fancy, you could use a V-band flange welded on.

I've generally found ATPTurbo.com or Race Parts Solutions to be good suppliers for that sort of thing in my own projects.