MikeJ-2009

It doesn't make the problem go away cause she's at home. lol.


But you should get out and get away from whatever the problem is. Take your son too. He'll have a good time.

iceknight24

dont go u will be mad at your self for doing it. u will miss your son, u wont get to see him grow up or hear him say dad, walk and many other things.

look at me i have a 3 year old daughter that i havent seen in 2 years. her mom left me and took her. i have been looking for her for a year. now i wish i started sooner but i didnt because i saw mad at her mom. now i have miss out on a big part of her life and she doesnt know who i am.

so take some time and think about it man and hopefully everything works out.

rudebwoy

Thats the wrong way to go about things man. its gonna be worst if you join the military, take it from me, I just game back from Iraq spent a year down there, watching your friends that you met in the military blown away, and a couple of close calls for you, its not pretty..I have been in the Army for 7.5 years been married for 4.5 years and I only spent 1 full year at home with my family. plus you are gonna be stressed which is not good for combat, if you have problems that can be fixed, being away in the military wont fix them. if you leave with unsolved problems its gonna make you a wreck. think about your son. I am sure you dont want to leave him alone. you will regret it.

GenLx

this is closely related to a little thing men go through called a midlife crisis although you might be younger i dunno but its about the same. STOP and think for awhile before you do anything. your responsibility is to your kids and wife then yourself.

d0nfry

your kid needs a dad.

y49crxsi

No, from what it sounds like, it her problem, shes the one that wants to split. YOu should really be focusing on keeping the girl, so that you dont have to go away. DO you guys fight alot or something? Do your best to keep the family together, and that would be the best for your son.

jinxy

---- yeah man, stay for the kid. even if you love your wife to death shes not worth it if shes doing that to you. but thats no reason to deprive your kid of having a good life.

90turbohatch

You need to relax and think about this situation. Make sure you don't lose your son. He needs you and you need him. Things may work out with the wife. Just take a little break. Maybe she will realize that she needs you. If she doesn't then you will eventually get over her. Stay with a friend or family. She may call you in a week saying how bad she wants you to come back. Don't think that you should join the military so you can get killed and that will solve your problems. That is just stupid. You have a child and a confused wife. Things will get better. I hope you can work this out.

BLUEHATCH

Thanks guys for your replys... i'll see how things will go, maybe she'll come around and if things will get real bad then maybe you'll see a new thred "I am in the militrary fools!!!"