quadnie

That's kinda a good thing that she found the post. I'm sure she will be spying on your *** now (we should keep all the girl posters from not hitting on you dude). Anyways, it's out in the open now. Hit her up for some sex while you are at it. Keep us updated.

SkunT

Yeah, she knows I have the **** threads to. Its great. Makes her feel like ----. She knows I like **** though...(its just a fad)

Im not hiding anything from her on here. I am 99.9% honest with her. that .1% is usally about me racing on the streets

story--I almost got a ticket because I was racing a WRX and the cop came up behind us, I was in front of the WRX(and my light to the plate is out ) the cop turned on his lights, the WRX pulls over right away, and I took off on an exit ramp. Thank god.....
''no more street racing''

Doofnoil

wow...an insightful and useful relationship post on hmt... the world IS ending...

my bet is this mountain of debt has something to do with making the relationship feel weird, look into taking care of that asap.

I've found that debt only goes two ways, you either get out of debt or further into it. Once action is taken to remedy this (I've felt helpless in debt before) things start to look up and you can start planning for the future again. But if you're deep in debt, what's the point in making plans if you know they will almost never happen while you've got this monkey on your back, you know?

Make a "plan" to get out of debt with her, this will help you both towards your goals as well as help with making future goals easier to accomplish.

SkunT

I just dont know what to do. Stay with a chic that is going no where or live my own life which would seem to be ok with out her in it?
Live life like the drunks do, one day at a time--Homer Simpson

quadnie

At least try and fix things up with her. She is worth a try to stay with her. You haven't tried all the way yet. Some girls aren't worth letting go, even if they do have one or two problems - they all have one or two problems.

Just lay it all on the table, tell her conditions, compromizes, the truth. Get a feeling of what direction you have to go then prepare for whatever. First step to solving a problem is admitting you have one - Alcoholics Anonymous

SkunT

I have pretty much done all of that. I told her we would give it till the end of the year....
one day at a time....

HondaTuner

Good luck man.. Hope it works out for ya

Best of wishes.

slowcivic

not to be harsh man; but tell her to put up or shut up. she will probably continue to railroad you as long as you let her.

accordepicenter

Very true, if you dont like it, dont let her get her way or youll just keep getting owned. Also why would you get a divorce over money and stuff like that... its not like you guys are in a completely loveless marriage and cheat on eachother all the time

LSD Motorsports

Hey man, first off i just want u to know that i am only posting in ur thread again because ive been in ur shoes, i really want to help ur *** cuz i know ur feeling like ----. Straight out man, sometimes chicks have phases for a few weeks and act weird and say some stupid things, but this girl is messing with u emotionally, financially and physically (no sex) You cant get much worse then that, and shes not even trying to change or willing to give it a chance for her to change it appears. So i think you have to come correct with her and get as honest and sincere as possible, and just have one last deep talk, even if you have to tie her *** up and tape her mouth up to listen. Shes probably a good girl, thats why u love her and all, so just do what u have to do man and find out once and for all her decision.. Not u talking and telling her well go one day at a time, see what steps she wants to take and make her stick to em.
Sorry for the long *** post, pm me if i can help u in any other way or if u need some clarification