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Old 05-16-2006, 11:15 PM
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Originally Posted by Tatakai
hmm so it seems everyone agree's, to ditch the girl and work on school.. damnit

but yea, im sure she is a little bit of a drainer on the money.. and part of the debt is to her, she was in the car in my accident and i guess her back got hurt so she just had to go see a chiropractor for a ---- ton of times and since we didn't go through insurance on the accident.. $$$$ almost up to a grand, and she's not done with her "treatment" yet. gay
First off, why the ---- are you paying for her to get adjusted. Why didn't you go through insurance on the accident?

Highschool was one of the easiest things I've ever done. It's not like you have to be a genious. You just go to some place for 6 hours, do the busy work that requires little to no brain power, and get passing grades. Try college

Ditch the woman, she's not worth it. Work your *** off, then try to eliminate all the ---- out of your life. I hate complexity, and it seems that she's just giving you more and more of it.
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Old 05-16-2006, 11:32 PM
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ooooooooo hol up wtf u paying for it/ hell nooooooo dump that bitch now go to the chiropractor and cancel any more visits man i would pay it if she was my girl already and gave me ----- and love and that bitch was loyal but helllll noooooo not the worst mistake u can make cus u feel guity for her but dammmmmmmmm she using is using you she keeps on going to get fixed because it feels good how much you wanna bet she is all fine man wtf were you thinking
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Old 05-17-2006, 12:03 AM
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You got too much ---- going on in your head that`s what it is. sooner later you will get ------- depressed and ---- ur brain up.

Think simple, plan LESS, if you love that girl just go for it, there isn`t too much time left once u left school and start working and whatnot. By the time you relize you REALLY liked her it`s already too late. Who cares what MIGHT happen down the road but you will never know without trying.
As of school..I wouldn`t push myself too hard/too far. You already know if youself like school or not, just don`t fool urself on how you want this and that then downthe road relize you`ve wasted all these time that you could have go work/study something you liked, gain experience on. I mean i am not saying you should go all out and became a piece of trast but TRY to do your very best everyday, tell yourself it would be the last day everyday.

Right before depression casue you to stab yourself in the neck, remember you are not the only one thats handling these SIMPLE problems, every ------- one here or in the world deal with this ---- everyday. Tell your chick what you are going throught i am sure she will give u some light, cheer you up some, may be then she will proceed to suck you off, if it ever happenes remember it`s just forplay, jump her and ---- the ---- out of her will def.ly make you feel better. . LIke someone said up there, you should be glad that you got a roof to live under, there are so MUCH MUCH more ppl that`s dealing with serious ---- everyday, right at this very moment when you are reading this someone`s going through the pain of watching there chick get raped; holding his girlfriends hand when she`s dying, sucking man off just to make 99cents to buy food

cliff note: Think simple, plan less, look forward, take one day at a time.

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Originally Posted by Tatakai
so basically, i've got nothing going for me in life, except a girl who is also my best friend. recently/soon to be convited of a major crime, car was totaled, ppl giving me ---- at school, very close to not graduating (and just a month away) in debt $3k and growing, etc etc.
Boo ------- hoo.

I've been arraigned in Superior Court twice (never convicted) and have a lot more misdemeanors than most people. I totalled my mom's car when I was 17 (worse than totalling your own - single mom, and we were NOT rich). People gave me ---- at school since 5th grade until I dropped out when I was 15. I've since had 9 years worth of college, and am unable to pay attention long enough to get a degree. My debt currently stands at $4K... and frankly, that's chump change.

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and basically, this girl who i care about a lot and cares a lot about me too, is scared to be with me for a couple minor reasons that she could get over.. but the main thing is my "immaturity" i guess you could call it. i'm basically unable to do
Her in the ***, we get the picture.

Sounds like you have serious amotivational syndrome. Pay attention:

- Smoke pot lately? Once a week was enough to make me an apathetic ---- who didn't do anything. Don;t smoke that ----, it is not for everyone.

- Stressed out? You'd be surprised how good you feel when you take care of your responsabilities. Do you promise out more favors than you can keep? Best bet is to start saying "no" until you have enough free time on your hands *after taking care of business* that you can go out and help a friend or whatnot. Burying yourself just creates more stress.

- Do you get enough sunlight? Some people have problems if they don't get a good dose of UV radiation. Eat breakfast on the porch, go for a walk with your shirt off, etc. A little exercise goes hand in hand with sunlight to perk you up.

- Get regular exercise. I prefer lifting beer, and sex. Weight lifting, jogging, cycling, etc, will do for those of you without enough money for vast quantities of alcohol and condoms.

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killed a 6 pack of corona by myself last night, just for ***** n giggles.
That's the only thing you've done right.
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Old 05-17-2006, 12:44 AM
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Assess what you have, or at least what you've told us.

You've got nothing going for you - What do you mean by this? Abuse at home? No friends? No roll-model?

Girl who is your best friend- Doesn't sound like it. She's sounds like a bitch, and you need to get rid of her. Find something else to replace her

Convicted of a major crime - What did you do? This seems like one you'll have to just fight through

Car was totaled - Well, you live and you learn. ---- like this happens to everyone, don't worry about it.

People giving you ---- at school - What for? They're probably all douche bags anyways. Highschool is full of clicks that don't mean anything. Get into the real world and you'll find people like you very quicly.

Graduate - Do this first. Get it done so you don't have to worry about it.

Debt - Why is your debt growing? Go to the library or search on google for some finance tips. I used to spend money out the yang, but I get by on a lot less and save a lot more.

As we've all said, you need ot eliminate these things that are stressing you out, and incorporate things that make you feel good. Complete what you have in front of you. Once that is done and out of the way, assess what you have and take care of that. Try talking to someone you can trust or a social worker. It's amazing what just talking can do.

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grow up, life will go as it does
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I had a pretty shitty last few months of high school myself, my long time gf broke up with me for some duchebag, although i wasnt worried about graduating, godamnit high school is so easy, just go to class and you pass, you almolst have to try to fail. Get that ---- done before u worry about some dumb bitch, they just get u into troubble anyways. there is always better and hotter chicks out there! get them after u graduate, its not an option u cant really do ---- without a hs diploma
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IF i didnt know the girl and her boyfriend.. then i would say

Put the girl on hold get rich and successful and when she comes runnings back to you, say " Bitch you coulda had this!"

but thats if i didnt knw who u were.. :P
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wow this is turning out to be kind of an inspirational thread for me. awesome

Originally Posted by Snafubmx234
You've got nothing going for you - What do you mean by this? Abuse at home? No friends? No roll-model?
yes, yes, and yes. mom likes to yell for no reason (like seriously, im not just being a teenager about this), i really only consider like 2 people my "friends", and my dad is a dead beat, who tries to be my friend whenever he feels like

Girl who is your best friend- Doesn't sound like it. She's sounds like a bitch, and you need to get rid of her. Find something else to replace her
that's gonna be kinda hard..

Convicted of a major crime - What did you do? This seems like one you'll have to just fight through
i really don't want to say, because I hate the kind of people that did what I did.. and the reason I did it was for some quick cash- stand there and make $600

Car was totaled - Well, you live and you learn. ---- like this happens to everyone, don't worry about it.
this was my 2nd car, and it was even my fault. technicaly yes, i was entering traffic, but i wasn't even in gear, i was rolling out of the "driveway" to look around the illegally parked mail truck and BAM there's old guy who wasn't paying attention.

People giving you ---- at school - What for? They're probably all douche bags anyways. Highschool is full of clicks that don't mean anything. Get into the real world and you'll find people like you very quicly.
yea they are basically douche bags. give me ---- for the 2 totaled cars, the recent that wasn't even my fault but everyone doesn't care, give me ---- because they think my car is slow? or they think im too ----- for turbo? no, i have no money and my car is not slow, they just base that off of last years High school drags, where I owned the car for a week and it was my first manual car, ran a very slow 15.6 4th time down the track

Graduate - Do this first. Get it done so you don't have to worry about it.
im starting to do this. stayed up late last night doing some old work, and im pretty sure im doing that again tonight.

Debt - Why is your debt growing? Go to the library or search on google for some finance tips. I used to spend money out the yang, but I get by on a lot less and save a lot more.
my family does not have any money, when I did have a job, I helped pay bills, along with my own bills, and so ---- keeps building up. $150 a week aint ----, when I pay $100 monthly for car payment, $200 monthly for insurance, and at least $100 a month on gas because my school is 10 miles away. and of course, there's other expenses like oil changes, bald tires, food- my sister, mother, and I each buy our own food

your post here was almost inspirational with what you've been through in life, since now it seems everything is just dandy for you
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Sounds like you have serious amotivational syndrome. Pay attention:
basically, yea

- Smoke pot lately? Once a week was enough to make me an apathetic ---- who didn't do anything. Don;t smoke that ----, it is not for everyone.
- Stressed out? You'd be surprised how good you feel when you take care of your responsabilities. Do you promise out more favors than you can keep? Best bet is to start saying "no" until you have enough free time on your hands *after taking care of business* that you can go out and help a friend or whatnot. Burying yourself just creates more stress.
- Do you get enough sunlight? Some people have problems if they don't get a good dose of UV radiation. Eat breakfast on the porch, go for a walk with your shirt off, etc. A little exercise goes hand in hand with sunlight to perk you up.
- Get regular exercise. I prefer lifting beer, and sex. Weight lifting, jogging, cycling, etc, will do for those of you without enough money for vast quantities of alcohol and condoms.
- nope, no money to smoke and I honestly don't get much out of it except hungry.
- very, I find myself putting a lot of other peoples ---- on my shoulders
- I do get a lot, especially lately. my skin is a nice golden brown thank you very much
- i don't get much excersize really, im too lazy and always feel tired

i've been kind of ignoring the girl lately, but this makes me feel like ----. but i'm getting my work done, and i'm re-starting eating school lunch everyday since it's free for us po' people.. i think quitting my job will also give me more time to do homework, since I was working almost 30 hours a week for dirt pay.

oh, and the chiropractor stuff- she was in the car during the accident, so it's my responsibility. we didn't go through insurance because my family would have 3 major accidents within 15 months and would most likely get the boot from our insurance company. my mom was majorly rear-ended in her '02 civ and the people we had fix it fucked up and had to re-paint and re-order parts 3 times. and she (the girl) is a complainer, which irritates me. if she has a slight headache she needs some excedrin STAT! when i have a headache i drink some water, eat some food, and get some fresh air.. then get some meds.

oh, and the 6 pack by myself, twas nothing, but on an empty stomach it's enough to get me forgetting about the bad times
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