need some life help..
05-16-2006, 02:32 PM
#32
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Re: need some life help..
Things aren't that bad even though right now you may think things can't get any worst.
Trust me, I'm 25 just split up with my fiance (7 ------- years we were together) i'm about 18,000 in dept and finally just now got off of perole (not probation perole) for some fucked up ---- i did when i was younger.
Don't change just because someone wants you to, if you really want to change for you, and i mean realyl change yourself then you need to jump into it head first and get everything in your life thats stopping you from doing it out ASAP. At your age i thought i was in the worst place i ever could be, looking at 5 years in prision, no familly, homless, the list goes on and on, ---- i used to even get so down on myself that i would just take razors and cut the ---- out of my body just to release the pressure, but that never worked and all i have are scares to remind me of the hard times. Life will get better you just have to work on it and push on through the ----. Now looking back i realize the problems i had then are nothing compaired to what i'm dealing with now, but there was a nice few year stretch were life was great. Your always going to have up's and downs just try and make the best of things when your up and when your down try and stay low and not do anything rash until your up again. As for your girl, ---- i can't give you any help there, i got involved with my X when i was 18 and now at 25 we just split up, i don't know if were going to get back together or stay split up but i do know one thing, I need to do whats best for me and if that doesn't include her being with me then so be it. You need to do you, because if you don't do you no one else will!
Trust me, I'm 25 just split up with my fiance (7 ------- years we were together) i'm about 18,000 in dept and finally just now got off of perole (not probation perole) for some fucked up ---- i did when i was younger.
Don't change just because someone wants you to, if you really want to change for you, and i mean realyl change yourself then you need to jump into it head first and get everything in your life thats stopping you from doing it out ASAP. At your age i thought i was in the worst place i ever could be, looking at 5 years in prision, no familly, homless, the list goes on and on, ---- i used to even get so down on myself that i would just take razors and cut the ---- out of my body just to release the pressure, but that never worked and all i have are scares to remind me of the hard times. Life will get better you just have to work on it and push on through the ----. Now looking back i realize the problems i had then are nothing compaired to what i'm dealing with now, but there was a nice few year stretch were life was great. Your always going to have up's and downs just try and make the best of things when your up and when your down try and stay low and not do anything rash until your up again. As for your girl, ---- i can't give you any help there, i got involved with my X when i was 18 and now at 25 we just split up, i don't know if were going to get back together or stay split up but i do know one thing, I need to do whats best for me and if that doesn't include her being with me then so be it. You need to do you, because if you don't do you no one else will!
05-16-2006, 02:44 PM
#33
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Re: need some life help..
Why are you bitching. You said yourself that you know exactly what you need to do and how toget it done, but you still dont do it. Just sit down and do it. Ifthats all thats holding you back then consider your self lucky
05-16-2006, 02:53 PM
#34
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Re: need some life help..
I'm sorry i don't feel bad for you, it's simple, you have to Grow Up. You know what to do, and you know what will happen if you don't. It's up to you to make it better. What happened before you can't change, but you can change what happens now.
If you don't want to do homework, you are just lazy and never applied yourself to something. Life sucks in some ways, you will always have to do things you don't really like to do, but guess what it's part of living. Think about the consequences of your decisions, including your studies, your love life, the way you drive, everything has a consequence depending on what decision you take. It's up to you to make the correct one, and when something happens, don't blame anyone but yourself.
You have the power to change what will happen to you, it's easy. If someone wants to race you, let them die alone. If you decide not to do you homework, think about life after not having finished school. If you think it sucks now, wait until you hit reality. Think about your goals in life. I doubt you want to be a loser, with no education, no job, no girl, on probation, living with your parents at 25. You have time to change, use it wisely.
If you don't want to do homework, you are just lazy and never applied yourself to something. Life sucks in some ways, you will always have to do things you don't really like to do, but guess what it's part of living. Think about the consequences of your decisions, including your studies, your love life, the way you drive, everything has a consequence depending on what decision you take. It's up to you to make the correct one, and when something happens, don't blame anyone but yourself.
You have the power to change what will happen to you, it's easy. If someone wants to race you, let them die alone. If you decide not to do you homework, think about life after not having finished school. If you think it sucks now, wait until you hit reality. Think about your goals in life. I doubt you want to be a loser, with no education, no job, no girl, on probation, living with your parents at 25. You have time to change, use it wisely.
05-16-2006, 03:04 PM
#35
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Re: need some life help..
you are one lazy ----. Luckily i got ahead in my early high school years and during my senior year i didnt do anything. i still graduated 
, goes to show when you work hard it'll all pay off in the end. So get off your *** and ------- do something about. No one can tell you what you should and shouldn't do when you, yourself are the only person that can do anything about it. If all else fails you can just kill yourself and be done with it. :1
, goes to show when you work hard it'll all pay off in the end. So get off your *** and ------- do something about. No one can tell you what you should and shouldn't do when you, yourself are the only person that can do anything about it. If all else fails you can just kill yourself and be done with it. :1
05-16-2006, 03:08 PM
#36
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Re: need some life help..
Originally Posted by davcivic
You have time to change, use it wisely.
Originally Posted by BoosTedZSix
If all else fails you can just kill yourself and be done with it. :1
Both are right though, man. I'd listen to the older guys here, they've been through this and know all about it.
05-16-2006, 05:26 PM
#37
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Re: need some life help..
Just get your ---- done, youre in the homestretch now, if you ---- it up its a real waste of your future over what, a couple months of work and a girl? Don't make the same mistake i did when i was your age, I met a girl from another school, hung out with her constantly(but i got to ---- her all the time) and i didn't hang with my real friends during the best time of our lives. Now all i got is some shitty memories of some stupid bitch that broke up with me a few weeks after going away to college, probably blowin' dudes left and right. Anyhow I know how you felt, there was definitely a safety net when you are in high school, and when you see an end in sight it scares the ---- out of you. But first and foremost just get high school done, then you can work or go to school or whatever, you won't be pressed for time like you are now. If it takes that girl to baby sit you through your homework and shes' willing to do it, then so be it. You'll be glad you did when you finally grow up. And 3 grand is nothing, you can work that off in a summer if you try hard enough. Just keep it real.
05-16-2006, 05:32 PM
#38
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Re: need some life help..
don't be a dumbass.... do your work and graduate. You swear like ti's hard work. Get off your lazy *** and finish that ----. Graduation is a month away and you'd rather not graduate and become a ********? Go fucken finish that ---- or else you are just a waste. 13 years of schooling to throw it away with only one month to go? Dumbass. If you want me to yell at you over the phone pm me your number and I'll feed you ---- til it motivates you.
05-16-2006, 10:51 PM
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Re: need some life help..
another question
is what crime are you being convicted on
second does she even bother about you if she has feelings fo you she would call you or something plus you in senior man finish it and get the ---- out of high school go to your mom dad or someone to help you out get a new friend from them clases to help you out with the homework just dont tlk to that bitch and if she calls you or anything (not asking for a favor but for you two to go out or something) the shes worth it but if she doesnt ---- her.
is what crime are you being convicted on
second does she even bother about you if she has feelings fo you she would call you or something plus you in senior man finish it and get the ---- out of high school go to your mom dad or someone to help you out get a new friend from them clases to help you out with the homework just dont tlk to that bitch and if she calls you or anything (not asking for a favor but for you two to go out or something) the shes worth it but if she doesnt ---- her.
