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Old 10-25-2003, 11:11 PM
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ya, my life is pretty much fucked right now. about a month ago, a good friend and her mom were in an accident and her mom died, and no one would ever tell me what happened to her. well, tonight i found out. over a month what happened was a big secret from me, and finding out tonight that she was paralized from waist down and on life support. last night, another chick friend was in the same city visiting and she was hit by a semi, killing her. too top that off, my best friend with a 91 Mazda B2600i, that was so ------ awsome, with a 4 " lift, 33 super swamps, warn winch, piaa off-road lights, rolled it last night 4x4'ing since there was fresh snow. well he had a few beer, and got adventurous like always, tried climbing up a nice hill and tipped to the right, with his left arm out, squashing it. he went to a major city today for an operation to fix it. anyways, my parents split 5 weeks ago, and its been a mega down fall for me, and i got a nice job with good pay, and all i bought was smokes and beer. i was gonna look at a Civ today, but, ya, all this bullshit that happened hit me hard, so im just gonna leave the car scene for awhile till i get my head back on. i figured i'd let you guys know, just because everyone here is supportive towards harsh ----.


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Old 10-25-2003, 11:21 PM
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Sounds like a really bad chain of events there. Your life seems to be going alright but your friends seem to be doing badly. Its affecting you but your life is still in good shape dont forget that.

Your friend will learn from what happened the other night as will you. Personally cars help me to calm down and clear my head, it gets my mind off of other things when I work on them.

Sorry to hear about all this misfortune though, just try to be positive about things if you can.
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Old 10-25-2003, 11:47 PM
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Damn bro I hope you feel better just remember bro ---- almost always works out for the better in the end. take it easy man
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Old 10-25-2003, 11:58 PM
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im listening to some Westside Connection, so it's making me a bit better. Thanks guys for the support !
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Old 10-26-2003, 12:12 AM
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I hope things look better for you, but I can compete, my cat died of kidney problems a week or 2 ago and I fucked up my engine by over heating it because my 15 year old temp gauge wire broke off (cracked radiator beyond repair and filled engine with coolant, hopefully it was just the head which I had machined)

and also, I don't think you're the youngest member, try beating me: dob 12-26-86
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Old 10-26-2003, 12:21 AM
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You're born to die, in the middle, get money. the good will never seem that way unless you experience the bad. good luck man, ---- is always gonna be one semi truck away...
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Old 10-26-2003, 12:28 AM
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damn, 3 months and I would have had it. and your car runs. I'm going to go make a thread about how shitty my life is. haha
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Not that this compares to your story, but I drove 3 hours just to ride for like 20 minutes. My friends bike blew up out in the middle of bumb ---- egypt within 15 minutes of riding. I can't explain how let down I was/am. I spent all week getting my damn bike ready for this weekend and it's all fucked. Oh well, ---- happens. It's bound to get better. Oh, my friend that blew his bike up, I just found out that she has cancer and it's ------ing all over her body. I didn't want to ask too many questions because it was obviously a touchy subject, but I doubt she has too much longer to live. Life sucks sometimes, but that is just the way life goes.
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You have to realize that life is just a big game. Everything that happens is just preparing you to learn to deal with further hurdles. It sucks when bad things happen to us mentally, but the more things that happen, the better prepaired you are to deal with things down the road. Like when you have a family/business/house and things go wrong, you will know what to do because of the mental stress you will have already gone through. IMO

Hate to get all psychologist, but it's just the way I see it. Good luck.
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